Worried about daughter

Cate65
Community Member

I'm hoping for some advice regarding our 24 year old daughter.  She lacks motivation has gained a significant amount of weight over the past few months, does no exercise and has not been able to sleep the last few nights.

 

I've tried to get her to just go for a short walk each day focusing on the health benefit both mentally and physically (without mentioning her weight at all) and tried to educate her on the benefits of eating healthy again not mentioning her weight gain.

 

Both my Mother and sister had bipolar so I am very aware of the symptoms of mental illness.

 

Should she go to a GP first or would seeking help from a psychologist be our first option?

 

Any advice will be greatly appreciated.  Thank you.

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indigo22
Community Champion
Community Champion

Hello,

Welcome and thank you for reaching out to us.

 

It sounds like something may have happened recently that has played a role in your daughter's change in behaviour. You are very astute in picking up the red flags so there are 2 ways of going about this, however, your daughter needs to be on board and acknowledge that she needs some help.

 

A GP can do an initial assessment and can offer medication if needed along with setting up a mental health plan for seeing a psychologist. Alternatively, finding a psychologist that your daughter feels comfortable with to do an assessment and ongoing counselling is also fine, keeping in mind that a psychologist is not able to offer medication if needed, but can suggest making an appointment with GP for medication.

 

It can be very hard to feel motivated to do the things that are in your best interest when you are in the midst of a mental health crisis, so making suggestions as you have done is very supportive, just be aware that she may not be ready to take on those suggestions at present.

 

I hope this helps and please feel free to continue the conversation if you wish.

Take care of yourself too,

indigo

Cate65
Community Member

Thank you so much Indigo.

 

I will endeavour to get my daughter to make an appt with our GP.

 

Kind regards

Catherine