dear Hib, hello and thanks for your post, and please never feel strange talking about your feelings, because that's
exactly what this site is all about.
It lets people just like you to express how you are feeling, and the majority of the time their stories are very sad
and reaching out for other experienced people to help them ot those that have been therough or still going through
depression.
Everybodies comment has to be treated on their own, so advice and any suggestions are given by those who want to help them.
There are so many questions we either ask ourselves or ask our partner/spouse, but we don't get any answers that appease
us, and none that we can accept, because what is said can never overcome the stronghold that depression puts us in, so
negativity sets in, and with this comes the trust we would expect from our partner/spouse, but we tend to doubt whatever
they have to say.
Not only has this happened for you it has happened to many other people who write into this site, and that includes
myself, because something happens which we question and have grave doubts about it's authenticity, because trust should
be taken without any doubt and if there is a problem then it needs to be discussed and not avoided.
When we go and see a psychologist they ask you 'why do you feel this way', but we have no answer to begin with,
it's too complex and what's the main point we want to mention first, so it needs for you and the psychologist to form an
ideal relationship, one which has confidence and trust, but before this can happen is that you need to see your doctor
first.
Hope to hear back from you. Geoff.
