To nice

[Nicegirl]

Hello

I just need some help. I've been feeling upset lonely jealous nasty all the time at late.

I have reasons to feel like this as I'm always the nice person. Counselling hasn't helped I've tried numerous times My marriage is in tatters and I've got rid of many so called nasty influences out of my life . I'm the one most people unload on but when I need someone no one is ever there for me.

I feel though I'm never ever happy. Is this depression? I'm not sure and when I sit and think ok what's going to make me happy I go blank

please help I feel desperate and my feelings are getting worse

[geoff]

hello Nicegirl, I'm sorry you feel this way but unfortunately it does when someone is feeling left out and probably this will cause depression.
Those nasty influences may always happen from time and time again, but as you say your marriage is in tatters, so this jealousy comes into this much stronger and is causing you to feel this way, I am so sorry, because it also happened with me, and that was one reason why I became depressed.
This is such a burden but you don't have to carry it alone by yourself, there are people just like me who have gone through the same experience, so please trust us, because when this happened with me I was devastated.
I really hope to hear back from you. Geoff. x

[kanga_brumby]

Nice girl like yourself in the past just about everyone turned to me for advice, or help. I was the one they would ask first, or close to first. When I needed help everyone was too busy with there own stuff, to stop for five minuets. It still goes on today. With most of the people who I have helped were still in my life, I know some would help me now. All of us have talents, some people can give advice well. Some are hopeless, but at least we try. The biggest loser is the ones who don't even try to help. In some way the entire village needs help. It's our job to fix it. Unfortunately it's the same faces doing all the work, with the minority sit on there comfy chairs and take the credit. For what we have done. Please if you need to unload hassles come back into BB we will try to help. That's why we are here. Take care.

Kanga

[quirkywords]

Nicegirl

Welcome. I am glad you have started a thread here.

Geoff and Kanga have written helpful words.

I can relate to what you said about being the one others lean on but then having no one around when you need help.

It felt confusing for me , people would say we are hear but often they were busy and I wouldn't ask as I felt I was imposing.

Quirkywords