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Personal health advice needed please.

Bgcg
Community Member

Hello, i'm new to posting in the forums, though I have looked at them over the last year or so.

I guess I will start with some background information, i'm 25, Male and currently studying my masters with 9 months to go. I have had anxiety for roughly 6-7 years (comes and goes). The last 2 years a lot of negative events have happened in my life, 3 close family deaths, 1 of which was unexpected and my partner of 4.5 years, after that persons passing developed serious depression and 4 months ago told me she wanted a 'break'.

Now I know how all 'breaks' end, I guess what really has me at a loss is that we where a great couple, travelled a lot together, had talked a lot about the next steps in our life and then suddenly it was all over.

Anyway that's a bit of a back story, my anxiety has well and truly come back with vengeance and I fear that depression is knocking as well. Im not sure on the next steps to take not only for myself but for my now ex, I have insisted that she goes and talks to a professional but it doesn't seem to be happening and she is after 'space'. For myself I have been exercising daily and eating well but if anyone has any other strategies I would love to hear them.

While I am here the other thing that is making me feel down is that I feel 'old', now I hope I dont offend anyone saying that as i know 25 inst old by any means, I just cant seem to shake this thought.

Apologise for the rant. I look forward to your replies.

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sparrowhawk
Community Member

Maybe the journal will help. How did you go with the letter? (if you feel comfortable sharing)

Thanks! I don't generally feel very positive but I try my best. Trying to help others helps me to step out of myself a bit, and helps me to forget about my own stuff for a little while. And if any positive or good impact comes for someone else that's wonderful.