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My voices

Depressed24
Community Member
My voices are more distressing when I m alone or when I m depressed . They call me lots of things that I cant mention mainly swearing and they call me weird when I m not I m not weird . I get lonely all the time my parents brought me a parrot but that has not helped I still get lonely I have no friends and if I want to make friends on E harmony or RSVP I don't have a credit card so I get more depressed if RSVP was a better website I would find friends but I will keep trying even if it hurts . I m 24 years old and no guy wants me at all the more I cry and the more sad I get is annoying looks like I got schizophrenia and bipolar 1 . I wish me mom and dad could move but we probably cant anyway thanks to these voices . Can or does anyone want to be my friend if not then that's okay I get use to it
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Kazzl
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi Rachel, we met on your other thread My Story. I'd like to be your friend, and we were having a bit of a chat before. I'm glad to see you back again.

It's best to just have one thread of your own if you can, so people know where to find you. Shall we make this thread your main thread now?

You can join in on other theads if you want, especially the ones in the Social Zone where there's lots of chat about hobbies etc.

I think last time we spoke you were worried about your mum - how is she going?

And what have you been up to - how are you getting on with your hobbies?

Hope you come back to chat more hun.

Kaz

kanga_brumby
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Rachel hi we have a similar problem, I have no friends. I would be honored to be called your friend. The main problems are this is not a dating site. Plus I am in an age bracket where I feel it would be inappropriate to go very far into a relationship with you. At least in here you keep it simple and just talk to people about problems you are having. They advise you, you advise them. Respectfully keeping a distance. So if you would like to have a friend to talk to I am here.

Kanga

blondguy
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

Hi Rachel

You are strong by posting and good on you 🙂

I am a volunteer on the forums and like Kanga would be honored to be your friend too !

I am Kanga's age (an old duude lol) and would be more than happy to be here for you Rachel as a friend that you can vent to 🙂

I am usually on every couple of days and there are also many kind people here than be here for you too!

My Best

Paul

geoff
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni
hi Rachel, include me with the others as being a friend, but can I suggest, instead of these dating sites I would like you to google this site 'places for lonely girls to make friends', because there maybe too times you will be rejected for some reason or another, plus they will cost money, and there are too many false people who say what you want them to say will make contact with you, so you will be more hurt than you wanted. Geoff.

Vegetarian Marshmallow
Community Member

Hey Rachet, do you get out socially much? I think that could be more helpful than trying to meet people on websites, if it's an option. Because websites have their own extra layer of norms that you have to learn, which complicates things, I feel. People interact differently on websites than in person. It's less intimate because you can't see the person's face, hear their voice, etc.

But regarding websites, try Meetup. It's for groups (which just anyone can come along to) instead of one-on-one, so people are guaranteed to actually meet you rather than trying to find someone on a dating website who wants to.

Ambivalent
Community Member
What are the voices like?? Do they sound like they're a real person talking to you from outside your body or are they more like interior monologue??