My partner is suffering I need advice please

[Josephine77]

My partner has told me he has been struggling mentally for a while and disclosed some concerning things which I talked to him about what he could do to get help. He doesn’t want to have me around to put me through everything he is goi g through. He wants space to sort himself out and get his financial situation sorted. His conclusion is we live apart for him to do this

I understand the space but I don’t understand me having to live elsewhere it really hurts

how does this help him financially and how does this help him by being alone

he wants us to stay exclusive and does t want to lose me out of his life

I took

us elf away for the last week and a half to give him time alone and for myself too

he has been in contact and wants to know details about how my holiday is etc

i go back today and I just don’t know how to go through this r what to discuss when I’m back

i Need someone to talk to

j

[Josephine77]

Slowly on the mend

puppy is wonderful brings me so much joy and love

[Lillylane]

Hi Josephine,

Wishing you well in your recovery.
Lovely to hear you have a very special puppy in your life.

Sorry about my previous reply below... I started to type then dropped my phone.

Take care,

L.

[Lillylane]

Sorry - what I’ve written below probably doesn’t make sense... I thought I’d accidentally posted a one letter reply, before dropping my phone, but it seems it didn’t appear after all.

All good, my apologies.

Best wishes to you Josephine and all on this thread.

[Josephine77]

Hi everyone sorry I vanished I became quite sick and ended up having my gallbladder out.
whilst I was sick I started seeing the entire picture better and him for what he really is

the way he shoved my belongings under the dog bed etc I’ve never felt as low as I have been since that

he Has continued to be nasty to me in the past few months and didn’t repay me all the money he owed me

He also upset me my birthday week this month he just can’t seem to help himself

so I blocked him 3 weeks ago and I’ve never felt such relief

I can now move forward with my life and heal from it all and start a fresh new year in 2022

i hope you all are really well I’ve missed the chats

j

[Lillylane]

Hi Josephine,

It’s great to hear from you again! Thanks so much for the update.

How very unpleasant and painful it is to discover your ex’s true colours!! However, I’m so relieved for you! It opens the door to moving on. And some much happier times are ahead for you I’m sure.

How is puppy doing? I imagine he’s grown quite a bit? I would love to have a dog, but I think my cats may not be keen on the idea 🙂

Very glad for you Josephine and admire the strength and determination you’ve had throughout all of this.

Lillylane

[Josephine77]

Hi Lillyanne

I just couldn’t see clearly with brain fog - it is very difficult to understand why someone could do those things however all I know is I don’t need or want anyone like that in my life

puppy is so good he is so big and has helped me with this journey lately

he is 6 months now and is huge!

yea I don’t think the cats would approve hahaha

Its really nice to connect again

[jtjt_4862]

Hi Josephine77,

Great to hear from you again. Hope you're recovering well from your gallbladder operation. It's great to hear that you're doing well moving forward from your past, and definitely better times are ahead of ya. Keep it up champ :).

Regards

Jt

[Josephine77]

Thanks jt I’m moving in to bigger and better things for my life and for what I deserve

j

[Learn to Fly]

Always great to hear from you, Josephine77 and it is good to hear lots of things have cleared up for you and made you feel stronger and better. This is all in the past now and it’s great to hear your positivity for the future.

Take care.