my heart hurts no where to turn

[leelee1994]

Im finding life so hard im not sure where to turn to my partner and i are so distant my kids are uncontrolable no one seams to be listening

Falling apart on how much my partner and i have become so distant lately it bothers me to the poing i say/do really dumb stuff leafinbto arguments

My kids are young both diffrent fathers but class my oartner as dad my ex wont give up the last few day advisester 4 years he finally has decided he wants something to do with his child my partner hates the idea and really so do i but i know i cant do that to my son but i cant seam to win

On another note my daily struggles of even getting out of bed is getting so much harder i just dont seam to find the energy to even tell the dog to sit down anymore

I have no friends no social life of any kind im around the kids 24/7 with no excape

Looking fo insite to look at the brighter side of life

[Guest_1055]

Hi leelee

That's great that you are looking for the brighter side of life. Please can I reassure you it is indeed there?

I am sorry you are struggling a bit with things. I know what it feels like to feel distant from ones partner or hubby. It can hurt ones heart a lot. I also know what it feels like to just want to stay in bed and hide.

Have you seen a GP? Sometimes you can simply have a chat with them and tell them what's happening. They might be able to advise you.

I noticed you wrote in the "5 -things thread". What you wrote did seem like you noticed the brighter side of life. It was great, and even beautiful. And I felt encouraged to actually read it. So thank you ever so much for blessing me!

Are you eating healthy and do you get the opportunity to exercise? I suppose you would be physically busy with little ones. The reason I ask you this is because it may make a huge difference to your energy levels.

I am not sure what else to write, but I do care about you. There is also a number to call on Beyond Blue if you want to talk to someone.

May you truly see the brighter side of life in this brand New Year of 2017 and beyond. But not only see it, but live in it.

Love Shell x

[leelee1994]

Thankyou ever so much and im greatful that my post in 5 things i noticed helped

Ive been trying to see a gp for a few weeks now but with the holidays they are booked saddly​ the whole reason i have come across this sight been on here for a few days now and am slowly starting to feel alittle better already can just emagin on how a few months on this will help me

I try to be active but all i seam to be able to do threw the day is wash up i try and spend time with my kids but seams only thing i can do its watch movies with them am trying the beat i can but can acturly say i can at least smile today