Just tired of trying so hard

[Meow31]

I’ve tried hard for my entire life. I’ve been honest, working hard, nice to everyone. It did not get me anywhere. I am still trying. Hard. For what? I do not know. I will live to keep my cats and dogs safe and happy. When they are gone, is it Ok if I stop trying? I’m so tired.

[Guest_4643]

hey meow31, welcome.

i know and relate to exactly everything you said. it sucks, huh?

[Sophie_M]

Hi Meow31,

Welcome to the forums, we are so glad that you've taken a big step in sharing your thoughts and feelings here with our wonderful community.

We are sorry to hear that you are struggling. We understand how exhausting it can be to continue trying and how much inner strength it takes. We're sure that a lot of our community members will relate to these feelings and hopefully some of them will pop by to offer you words of wisdom and kindness.

If you feel it may be helpful, we’d recommend that you get in contact with the Beyond Blue Support Service. They are available 24/7 by phone on 1300 22 4636 or on Webchat 1pm-12am AEST on our website: www.beyondblue.org.au/getsupport  One of our friendly counsellors will be able to talk through these feelings with you and can offer support, advice and referrals. 

We hope that you will find some comfort here on the forums. Please feel free to keep reaching out here on your thread whenever you feel up to it.

[Here2Talk]

Hi Meow,

Welcome, as Sophie said. There is much suffering in this world: this forum is full of people who have been, and/or are suffering. It never can take the place of face to face social contact but it is full of a lot of caring souls.

I’m here to be your friend in time of need even though it is just text. Do you want to talk a little about your life dear?

[quirkywords]

Meow31

welcome to the forum.

sophie has given you some helpful suggestions.
I agree with mblover many here will relate to your. Post.

I am glad your cats and digs give you strength.

I can think we can keep trying because at times di get better. Your animals give you love ans hugs so that is a reason to keep trying.

[Succulent Queen]

Hi Meow,

Just when I think no-one gets it, I jump on this forum and find a post such as yours. Relatable words for sure. I've tried and am tired too. Born tired, infact. When I think the thinks you're thinking I remember there's plenty of tired, tired dogs and cats out there that need us. Stick around.

[Chunty]

Hi Meow. I understand where you are coming from.Ive battled all my life and I'm exhausted. I just love my cats. I'm losing faith in human beings. All I get is rejection after rejection. I've had enough, I just want to be with my cat. I prefer to be alone. Humans wear.me out.Chunty

[Ggrand]

Hello Dear Meow31...

A very warm and caring welcome to the forums..

I am so sorry your struggling so much with your life...

I can relate to your post, and often think the same as you...I have always been kind and caring to people..when I was well and younger..worked really hard..and only ended up on my own now...with mental health issues....It doesn’t seem very fair.....

I have 2 little dogs, that I love very much and they keep me going...No one will ever love them or care for them like I do..I can hear the live you have for your beautiful pets...

How many cats and dogs do you have Meow31? ..They do give us a lit of joy...

I started volunteering a few years ago with a well known charity shop one day a week...and that gives me a sense of purpose knowing I’m helping people that are in need...other then the 3 other girls I work with, I don’t have much to do with people....I have one very dear friend, and my neighbour who I visit or they visit me....

People haven’t been very kind to me over my life, and now I am more inclined to find some happy moments sitting in the sun, watching and listening to the different array of bird songs..

Please...don’t stop trying after your pets are gone...I know..I really do know how hard it is to continue... I try hard to believe that their is something better ahead...and some days their is....those are the days I treasure..and well worth fighting for...

If you feel up to talking here please do so...no pressure at all...We are here for you Meow31....You are not alone..

My kindest thoughts with my care..

Grandy..

[Dejena]

Meow31 im sorry u feel that way. It's very hard when u try so hard, but u dont get anywhere or where u get is not that great compared to all the effort you have put. Then u feel like giving up because u don't feel like there is any point anymore. And that u are sick of trying. I think I understand how and why u feel this way. Talk to me anytime if you would like. I wish u all the best. It gets hard and tiring trying so much. Good luck.

[Chunty]

Hello Meow, Please keep in touch with me. Reading from your post, we are on the same wave length. I just leave my life and sufferings in God,s hands and I love Jesus and the Blessed Virgin Mary. I have got 2 priest that I can trust who can help me on my spiritual journey and my cat Merryweather. I trust animals more than humans. They are faithful and give you unconditional love. They accept you for yourself as long as you give them ,love. I like your name Meow. It is so cute. I simply adore cats..There are some lovely people in the forum, i must admit. You take care dear Meow Meow and do talk to me, that is only if you want.Chunty🐱🐒😻😸🦄🐩