I feel like I don't fit in anywhere

[Double_K]

Hi everyone,

im new to this so I'm a little wary about it all.

ive been feeling down lately and I feel like I don't fit in anywhere

[Double_K]

Mrs Dools,

thank u for your kind words.

today I had a good day. And last night wasn't to bad either. I had a long chat on messenger with my dearest friend about things and it was so good.

my friend is just so lovely and I appreciate what she told me.

thank u again Mrs Dools

[demonblaster]

Your very welcome k & great you came back to talk, anytime you need to vent, the close friend you spoke to was she the one that wouldn't let you in? If so awesome 👍

Also happy you've had couple good days too, now that you're up it's easier to cope & if you feel your downs need adressing now's the easier time than when you're struggling.

When you feel you don't fit in, is that work or everywhere?

You're not alone, sad but lot of people feel that way, are you shy? That'd be very hard.

How's duty manager going?

Take care all ☺

[Double_K]

It's mainly work.

to many clicky groups. It was never like that to start with, but now it just happens.

i use to be invited to go camping etc, but now it's just them....so I just go about my business and don't worry bout it anymore.

if they want it that way, then they can have it I say

[demonblaster]

Good for you K, hurts though aye, would me.

Yeah seems to be nature of people to click together but not good enviroment when it gets nasty

How you going otherwise?

Your friend ok?

Your call but I worked a lot of places and nursing can get pretty hairy at times, with clicks but mostly got on with people but ohhhh went from frying pan to fire in Sydney was then working nursing homes with beautiful geriatrics and smallish place only 4 of us in the morning shift and Matron they were called then was horrid too and the two girls were really nasty and made me feel so low. Cows, I asked one what the problem was and she said don't worry it's us not you, sigh and the bloke I worked with god, he wouldn't talk, so left and went to a 200 bedder, whopper n.home, said the wrong thing but outta caring to a chook and copped it there too was then I decided nah not leaving cause yous are clicky and cows, & just got grief at the other place & saw them push others away and leave too, turned out ok.

Since I've realised you spend most of your day at to and fro work, big chunk of your life, so you may as well be happy and learnt it's people that make or break a job, can you leave, like would you be able to find somewhere else easily or not an option?

Thanks for replying too 🙂

[Double_K]

My friend I spose is OK. Haven't spoken to her since Wednesday.

Today I'm a little up and down....dont know why. Just keeping to myself.

[demonblaster]

When the downs hit K, try and counteract with a good thought, when you're up you could work out some, and try firm self talk saying nah not going down, it's working well for me.

Too easy to slide deep into depression, a LOT harder to pull up

Sleeping?

[Double_K]

I don't know how to feel right now.

My friend that I talk to doesn't really talk to much at the moment and I don't know why. I haven't done anything wrong and I don't want to lose her as a great friend. She puts me in a good place when I chat to her and now I feel if I do I've done something wrong. Is right to just let it go for now and see what happens?

[Ulysses]

It’s really hard when you have social woes. After all we are supposedly social creatures. I struggled with friendships a lot over the years. Now I feel like just letting go and see what happens. I joined a group lately and decided I would go and just completely be myself, that is talk if I feel like and not talk if I didn’t. It’s been a long time since I enjoyed myself so much. Trick is you have to wade through a lot of groups which you may feel like you don’t fit into before you find the one that you just know you will. Don’t lose hope. I tried several and even got kicked out of two because apparently I offended people by being too chatty. Then a friend of mine who is perfectly normal said the same thing happened to her. Then I knew it’s not always you, sometimes you just don’t fit. So move on and find that fit for some happiness. Best wishes

[Double_K]

Not in a good way.

Went to work Christmas party and had a good time. Go to work or just to the gym and everyone just starts talking about how drunk u were and that's coming from ones who weren't even there. Why can't they just leave what happens at a party stays there.

Felt so low yesterday and just wanted to go home. Was in tears for a quite a while. Never felt so alone in my life

[demonblaster]

Ahh K (( if you want them )) Hi everyone else too 🙂

Read posts, have to choof but hope to get back later.

Sorry you're feeling like this really am.

It won't necessarily be this way all the time as Uly said maybe finding new groups could help. Life throws goods at us too, surprising how out of the blue things happen.

later all 🙂