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Dear Budge,
Thank you for such a great account of your depression - those damm forms are the worst ! To think you have to score something to get treated. I think you sound a mix of dangerous and boring. Those thoughts of suicide are, as you say, eternal. I have the same remedy with domestic chores to ease the darkness. Which is strange as most people's idea of ironing, washing up, cleaning, cutting the grass, etc, is that it is a bad thing and to be avoided at all costs.
"Are you OK ?" [built into a whole campaign] is great to hear when you want it. However, "Are you OK, I love you" probably sounds shit if you know they can't really do anything and are just saying it for the sake of it. But at least you have some support. If you really were on your own would it be OK ? Or, maybe after a few days, you'd be thinning "Mmm. I miss my family" ? Maybe you have to be as domestically boring in your explaination for time out as you would organising 4 hours of ironing and 10 hrs of washing dirty pots. Guess the advantage of solo time is less domestic stuff. But routine does normalise bad moods.
Adios, David.
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dear Budge, your letter is such a frank and honest one, and there have all been great replies.
For a psychiatrist to say 'why haven't you killed yourself' has no tact what's so ever, it could quite quickly close the door for you and not continue the session or sessions.
There are other ways in which they can ask this or suggest this to you in an appropriate way, with out being so craze, remember you are in a delicate way, and something like this could tip anybody over the edge. Geoff.