Everyday will be a struggle

[ImAllTalone]

There was this girl, I found out she was single, I texted her one day telling her how I feel and she responded back stating she doesn't feel that way towards me

I woke up 20 minutes ago with everything hurting and the constant feeling of loneliness. I'm so tired to be honest, I don't want to achieve anything or have ambition if I'm just going to be alone

I've decided to still remain friends with them, they're still kind and what happened shouldn't have affected it

I just don't know what to do or how to feel now that I can't be with her

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ImAllTalone

welcome and thanks for starting your own thread. Rejection is so hard and I feel the pain of your disappointment through your words.

I feel you will hurt for a while as you took a chance and now you feel alone.

Your feelings feel overwhelming now but with time they will lessen. It is good you can be friends as long as that isn’t to hard for you.

I was friends with someone and I thought it would be more than friends so when he made it clear we’re just friends I felt so alone. Gradually I put my energy into my writing and walking. It did hurt but I faced the reality it was not going to work.

Thanks for being so honest. We are listening to you.m

[Sophie_M]

Dear ImAllTalone,

Thank you for finding the strength to post in our forums. It takes a lot of courage to post how you are struggling and feeling.

We hear that you're feeling lost and alone because the girl you are attracted to doesn't feel the same attraction for you. This feeling of rejection is currently feeling very heavy on you right now.

Fortunately, we are a very helpful and supportive community. Many of us have had similar feelings and experiences to what is so intense for you currently. Often, it can help with the pressure to know that we are not alone.

We would like to encourage you to reach to your inner strength and courage.

Warm regards,

Sophie M.
 

[Sophia16]

Hi,

Thank you for being open here. I can hear how exhausted and isolated you are feeling. It must be very difficult going through that.

Relationships can be difficult, especially when one doesn't feel the same way. I guess my only advice is to move on. You will find someone better.

I know it is easy to say but i know you can do it. Let someone come to you rather than you going to them.

Stay safe and i am always here to chat