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Chris D
Community Member
I feel the need to cry so much but the tears won't come. I can feel them building up inside. I feel lost, lonely sometimes, i want to try and get my life back but it seems so far away. I feel down, i would like some company, someone to wrap their arms around me and tell me it's going to b ok. I want to just break down sometimes but i can't and it just tears me up inside.
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Jo3
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hey Chris,

It's Jo, your friend!!

Please remember that I am here and I am sending you a big hug, putting my arms around you now.

Chris, crying is hard for some because we tend to hold it all in.  And you want to let it go but you can't. If you could cry, even a little, it will help, you will release some emotion that you have kept inside for a long time.

Believe me, I know, I kept a lot of my emotion inside for a very very long time. And now I cry quite a lot.

Chris, you are always in our thoughts. Please stay strong, believe in yourself and you can get through this difficult time.  I believe in you and I know you can do it!!

Jo xx

Jo3
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi Chris

How are you feeling this morning? I really hope you are feeling a little better than yesterday.

Pls write back, just so I know you're okay.

Remember - stay strong, you can do it!

Jo

Neil_1
Community Member

Hi Chris

Hang in there my friend.  I'm hearing you loud and clear with the wanting to cry but how the tears won't come.

I thought seeing my brother the other day would have bought them, but no, we greeted and hugged and we chatted and when we left, it was hug and again and he said to me at that time, to hang in there and be strong.  It was nice to hear those words from someone you love and someone you know, who loves you.  But still the tears wouldn't come.

I hear everything you say Chris, and mate, I wish I could be there and give you a supporting hug to you.  I can send one via this medium ... and for you to know that you have friends who care so much about you here.

Do you have any pets?  I only ask that, cause I have my dog (and I know a number of other posters on this site have pets ... or mainly dogs from what I can gather) and my dog is such a source of support.  It's amazing that an animal (dog) can tell when you're upset/sad ... they see that and my dog comes up to me and sits beside me real close and puts his sad eyes on.  And you know what, they love you unconditionally.  It was just something on my mind to write this out ... just in case, i mean you may already have one.

Please write back to us and let us know how you're going today?

Cheers

Neil

 

 

Chris D
Community Member

Hi Jo and Neil,

I am feeling a little better today thankyou. the feelings seem to b worse at night time. Thankyou to both of you for your supporting words of encouragement. I might give lifeline a call i think. 

Kind Regards

Chris

Jo3
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hey Chris,

Good to hear you're feeling a little better today.  

Keep fighting this Chris, you can do it !!

Jo

Anthony10
Community Member

Hi Jo

I have just joined here yesterday...is there anyone I can talk to, need support.

 

Anthony

Jo3
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hey Anthony

How are you going? 

Jo

Anthony10
Community Member
bit upset

Jo3
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Anthony

can you tell me a bit more about why you're upset

 Jo