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A Beyond Blue Depression
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Beyond Blue, down and out, ashamed, embarrassed, confused, alone, sad, angry, scared are some emotions people who suffer depression go
through, crying, soar, tired, fidgety wanting to be alone and sometimes wish weweren’t here at all. Feeling helpless, feeling worthless, feeling a burden and left wondering why life is so cruel. Little things can seem like a major task, getting out of bed, picking up kids, doing shopping, it all becomes just too much, when the phone rings what do they want, no thank you I am busy, I don’t feel well, I hurt my leg, I have a headache, I have an appointment are some excuses I use, I really don’t need company or to be around people I am ok. We all can relate to the ones we love and care for who try to encourage us to get out, participate and get over it, we have all heard, once you get there you will be fine, give
it ago, you never get out loosen up. Sometimes it is necessary and seems appropriate to create and force a fake smile trying your hardest to be natural and enjoy a happy moment is an effort. Talking to people can make us feel weird, it’s not that you are not valued or liked but in our head our reply feels unnatural and fake because it’s hard to focus on what has been said,sometimes people who have been there can
explain best, I live it, I have lived it and without experience it’s hard to give advice or understand what its really like, you can read books and study and have all the medical degrees but to live a day in the shoes of a person with depression is what you need to get the full scope of what it’s like. I guess some see us weak but each day we live and try to deal with this is the strong approach, it’s never easy and always tough, each day we hope we wish we have good intentions that it will get better but as the sun goes down and comes uphere we go again. I wish there was a way to make me happy, to live life, to be able to smile, to have friends, to go out and be normal we all want that. All of us have friends, we all have a lot of people who have our back and some good strategic plans, we are club of our own we are Depression Club we stand for support, help and being there for each other, it’s not shameful it just shows we are pretty cool and we really care. When your turn has come and you have the help you need and are back on your feet, don’t forget depression club. We can beat this and have a better life, hang in there and keep up the fight.
Thank You Beyond Blue
and Thank you to the Founder Mr Jeff Kennett
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Your post resonated big time with me, and no doubt it will with so many others on here.
We all battle each day and do our best to continue along our own rocky roads.
I didn’t have a phone call, but a text from a very good mate … wanting me to go to a trivia night – the following night, and I just couldn’t bring myself to go (even though I know that when I’m there, I do enjoy it and his company). I think the thing with this was it was just a one night warning kind of thing.
If it had been for the following week (which I asked, but he couldn’t make it then), I might have been able to prepare myself to go along.
But I felt bad for not going and kind of letting him down, even though I did intimate to him, that if he hadn’t seen me there by ‘such and such’ a time, then I wouldn’t be going.
First world kind of problem … but it’s these things that prey on your mind and we build them up inside to be much bigger and nastier than what they should be. That’s just how we roll … unfortunately.
Neil
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Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, Crazy train. You are right of course, only someone who's been there can know how it feels and what it does to you.
Being different is isolating. Feeling alienated, not only from others but from our own selves is not for the faint-hearted. Weak ? I don't think so either. How can struggling alone against the odds be weak ? These forums are full of brave people who keep going regardless of exhaustion, general misunderstanding, stigma, despair.
But our struggles come with the gift of compassion, a rare, infinitely precious asset. It allows us to reach out, come together, share and support each other. You are right indeed, we are pretty cool and we have a voice...and a lot to say.
And you, Crazy train have done it with remarkable insight. A terrific contribution.
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Hi Crazy Train,
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Many times I have seen those who have recently struggle, find the strength, the courage and the determination to reach out to others.
Recently I have been on a dreadful downer. Through the thread I started, I was humbled and so appreciative of the responses from so many different people. Some of those were people whom I had tried to help and reach out to in the past. They recognised the hurt and pain in me and wanting to let me know they cared.
This is a very special forum where people can do that, reach out for help and assistance and reciprocate if they are able to.
Some people may just read and not contribute much or anything at all and that is okay as well. None of us know how far our words go or whom they may help.
Even the briefest, "Hello, thinking of you" might be just what someone needs at the time.
This is a special place that I am very thankful for as well.
Cheers all from Mrs. Dools
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