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Friends Cafe - social space for members under 25
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Hey! Welcome to Friends Cafe.
This is a chill and chat space for young BB members to talk about anything and everything and make new friends.
When school's getting to you, uni or work has got you down, parents, partners, friends don't understand, and especially if you're feeling alone or lonely - come and relax awhile and talk to others who know just how you feel.
Our minds can cause us trouble, but they can also be amazing things that imagine beauty, love and fun. This cafe has everything you can imagine. To start with it's, well, a cafe. So there's chairs and tables, comfy couches for flopping, a big screen tele, unlimited download on computers for games, Spotify (or an old-school jukebox if you prefer), every movie you can think of on instant demand ... whatever you want, it's here. Post and tell us what'd you'd like.
Plus, there's an infinite menu of whatever food or drinks takes your fancy. And it's all free!
To kick it off, today we have a special range of Monster Milkshakes - those thick gooey shakes topped with cronuts, chocolate bars, cake, cookies ... whatever you want. And if you can get through one of them, you're a legend (and probably feeling a little bit sick LOL!)
Welcome friends.
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Hi guys!
Zeal - Yes! I based it on a picture of Shailene Woodley, and I saved it so I can go back to that! And yummm Thai sounds great 😋 Enjoy your dinner with the fam, and I hope you manage to finish your prac proposal! Good luck!
Dottie - Haha yes the amount of selfies I have taken....😂 And funnily enough, the 2nd pair of Docs are actually my Christmas present from last year! my mum gave me a voucher to get them and we've just never got around to it! So hopefully I'll get them soon 😊 And yes! We've got the rainbow bunting up now and I must say, it looks great 🙂 And I'm glad to hear confirmed that it's safe for me to nap in lectures 😝
Everyone else - Enjoy your night and I hope you all sleep well 🙂
Tara xo
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ahhh thank you everyone for your kindness. To be honest, I tear up a bit reading your messages and thinking about how supportive everyone on here is! 🙂
Demi, haha the story about your puppy made me laugh. I hope rewriting the notes didn’t take long, and that you’ve been well the past few days 🙂
Tara, congratulations on your Presentation Night! I’m really glad that it went so well! Also yay for the haircut and good mood! I’m sure your hair looks amazing!!! 🙂 I’m glad you got the rainbow decorations and plates. I love the idea, and it will look great!
Zeal, I hope you enjoy dinner and all the best with the prac proposal 🙂
Dottie, I’m glad seeing your friends helped a lot, and that you enjoyed being with them! I often refer to my friends as my family too!
James and Grace, thinking of you both and hope you’ve been going okay.
I've been quite good the past few days, and I actually got a little bit of study done today, which I'm pretty happy with myself about. I hardly ever feel proud of myself, but joining this forum kind of helped me realise that we deserve to recognise and feel proud of our achievements, and that it doesn't matter how big or how small they seem!! 🙂
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Hi,
Tara, selfies are a must for an awesome new haircut! In fact, you could go hardcore and whip out the good old selfie stick too 😉
Ah vouchers are great! Let me guess, black Docs of some description? Your signature colour ha, ha.
The rainbow bunting sounds perfect! Hope you have an amazing theatre night with your friends! We expect a full report on the festivities later on though ha, ha 😉
Ahw, you really are such a beautiful person. I'm glad we're getting to know you better 😊
Well done on making progress on your studies! That's right, you SHOULD be proud of yourself! I'm so glad you're starting to recognise and celebrate your achievements. Big or small; they're all worthy! Heck, sometimes I celebrate that I got out of bed ha, ha 😂
Demi, Zeal, James, Grace and anyone else reading- I hope you're taking good care of yourselves.
And I love this cafe. It helps me feel a lot less alone and more connected (and to you amazing people, no less)!
Dottie x
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Hey Demi - oh my gosh that's so unfortunate, haha. That reminds me of my own failed attempt to study outside. I was doing my revision for the statistics final exam in 1st year uni. Anyway, I decided I deserved a break so I went out to get some lunch. While I was having lunch, it absolutely poured down and yes, maybe you've guessed it already, my notes and my textbook were still outside. They got so badly drenched that they'd basically disintegrated, haha. What made it worse? The textbook wasn't even mine 😛
Hey Zeal & Dottie - it was too windy for snorkelling today and yesterday 😞 So instead I just ended up doing tutoring and swimming in a nice sheltered pool, haha.
Ahw - I'm very proud of you to have done some more study! Keep at it. Year 12 is a big big big accomplishment. Among all my friends, we all found year 12 to be the most stressful thing academically - way more than it should be, haha.
Tara, Grace and anyone reading - I hope you all had a lovely weekend 🙂
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Hey Dotti,
Yeah, it is quite hard to be mad at a puppy, I was slightly annoyed but I honestly found it more humorous that anything which is lucky. Re-writing the notes only took an
hour which isn’t bad at all because it was good practice (and I counted it towards
my study time for the day :P) What are you up to this week?
Hi Tara,
Congratulations!
I’m glad it went well!!
Yeah, he is a bit cheeky; my old dog did the same with our Easter eggs ahah! I’m glad you managed to find what you needed for the party!
So this haircut… short? Pixie? What are talking; I’m sure it does look
awesome as your friends have said. Other than the haircut and party, what else
have you got planned?
Hey Zeal,
Yeah I’m also glad I took it positively haha could be quite disastrous if I let it upset
me. What are you up this week?
Hey Ahw,
How are you going? I’m glad you found the story entertaining; if only I could send you the photo of the notes haha the were completely destroyed, teeth holes and pieces
torn in half; it made for quite a challenging puzzle haha. How are you going? Hope
you’re okay 🙂
Hey James,
How are you going? Haha I can definitely relate to your outdoor studying experience ahah, think I’m going to stay in my room from now on… The fact that the textbook was not yours though… ouch… how did you go about explaining it to the person? Bet
that would have been an interesting conversation to say the least. What are you up to this week.
Sorry I haven’t been online much guys, was working 8:30-5:30 Saturday and Sunday and got work again tomorrow. Hope you all have a good/productive week
Demi x
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Hello everyone!
Dottie - Oh no! Not the selfie stick! 😂 And as for Docs, I think I might go the Cherry Red...(with black laces of course). My current pair are a soft black leather so I definitely have the black Docs covered there! Yes! I'll make sure I let you know how everything goes 🙂
Demi - Yes, I've gone pixie! If you search up 'Shailene Woodley short hair' that'll give you an idea of what it looks like. Very similar! As for what else is coming up, I'm seeing a performance by our Year 11s tomorrow night (after choir) and then Wednesday (birthday!) night I have a Performing Arts End Of Year evening, for which we are going paint balling! Can't wait 🙂 Have you got anything else besides work and study in the near future?
James, ahw, Zeal and anyone else - I hope you are having a pleasant week, I had a pretty great weekend myself. Its a pity you couldn't go snorkelling James, I hope there's a nice day coming up for you. And yes, ahw, you should always recognise achievements, big or small. I hope you got that satisfied feeling after your study session.
Tara xx
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Hi,
James, shame about the windy weather. Hopefully you get to go snorkelling maybe this weekend? Ha, ha sheltered pool seems wise, considering the weather.
Demi, puppies and their cuteness means they get away with anything 😉 Glad rewriting your notes didn't take too long. Well, I've a combination of work and uni this week (as per usual).
I'm hanging out with a friend on Sunday, which I'm trying to worm out of as I'm mostly going out of a sense of social obligation rather than genuinely wanting to go ha, ha. But I might just see her and get it over and done with.
Tara, cherry red with black laces sounds awesome! You sound like you're killing it with your new pixie cut 😊 Wow, you have a lot on. Your life is clearly much more exciting than mine ha, ha.
Zeal, Ahw, Grace and anyone else reading- hope you have all had a good start to the week
Dottie x
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Hi everyone,
It's now 3:52am according to my laptop ha, ha. I've been up for almost an hour now. Apparently my new thing is randomly waking up during the wee hours of the morning ha, ha.
I decided to stay up as I need to be up again at 5am anyway. Going to finish catching up on a stats lecture that I started last night then I'll be up to date on stats yay!
Dottie x
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I am the king of stats. I eat stats for breakfast, then throw it back up again because it's gross.
What kind of horrible statistical analysis are they getting you to do?
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Demi - yeah... about the explaining...I have a really bad memory so I actually forgot to tell them and they never asked. 6 years on, it's never been brought up, haha. I actually also have a friend's accounting book...it's very embarrasing.
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