Hey GIrlly,
Welcome to the Forums. We’re really glad you’ve joined us and felt safe enough to share what you’re going through.
We’re so sorry to hear how much anxiety and distress your work situation is causing. It’s clear this is having a big impact on your wellbeing, and we want to reassure you: you’re not blowing this out of proportion. When work becomes a place where you feel constantly on edge or belittled, it absolutely takes a toll. Being called derogatory names is never okay - you deserve to feel safe and respected in your workplace.
Psychosocial hazards like bullying, harassment, and low support are serious concerns, and you have the right to be protected from them (even in a small, family-run business). It’s great to hear you’re exploring other job opportunities - hopefully somewhere you’ll feel valued and supported.
If you haven’t already, you might also consider looking into leave options. Chatting with your GP about a medical certificate for personal leave could give you some breathing space to rest and reflect on your next steps. Even if it’s temporary, it might help ease some of the pressure.
If you ever feel like talking things through, Beyond Blue’s Support Service is here for you 24/7 on 1300 22 4636 or via webchat.
Thank you again for opening up. What you’re going through is very real, and it’s incredibly brave to reach out. We’re here to support you - you’re not alone.
Take good care of yourself 💙
Kind regards
Sophie M
