Struggling

[blues23]

1. Having a bad time lately lots of things happening at work I went to work safe cause of Persistent bullying behaviour from co workers , and ever since I did this my anxiety is thru the roof I have so many people poking prodding making me relive the things those people did to me I am so sad and scared and just want it all to stop all I want is a safe work place where I won’t be bullied threatened and assaulted is this too much to ask ? Obviously it is I’m my workplace 

[blues23]

Hi James 

 I have been walking a lot seems to help i have days I don’t want to but still go anyway . I had the dreaded meeting and got told nothing was a complete waste of time. They basically said they would tell me what the actions taken were when I return to work like what??? Then the told me the people who have physically assaulted me, and abused me to the point of being so anxious and emotionally destroyed that I just can’t even drive past the work place are still working there and may ( only may ) get some form of discipline but not fired no . So how in the world is that fair ? I don’t get it I’m very much considering going to the CEO cause obviously HR & management are useless at doing thing’s properly. It’s soo infuriating and has put me back enormously in my recovery . That is my big vent today . Trying to focus on other things but yes very very upset 

[james1]

Hey blues23,

Ah that sucks. Sounds like a big ol waste of time, and they're not really dealing with this appropriately. I hope you were able to take the weekend to just rest a bit - I understand that was really frustrating and upsetting. Was work safe there or otherwise have any tips about where to go afterwards?

On a less practical note, I understand it feels like a big set-back and was definitely not the outcome we were all hoping for. But it sounds like you are not going back until you are happy and feel safe, and I think holding true to that is a good little win. Super frustrating that others aren't helping, but if we can prioritise your health, at least you won't be put back into those abusive situations again.

I hope this week is going well.

James