The warmest of welcomes to you at such a stressful time in your life
I think that while the most upstanding of people in society are somewhat prepared for the consequences of standing up for others or being whistleblowers to various degrees, others are not prepared. Not being prepared can come with shocking consequences. I can only imagine how shocked you were when you were called into the office and confronted. Just thinking about it sets off my nervous system. The consequences don't take away from the support you showed your child when it comes to searching for a less toxic environment for her to work in. Btw, if this did not serve as a wake up call for the company (well worth them investigating such a toxic elements in the workplace) it's a shame.
I must admit that the company I work for is one I've been speaking poorly about to others, largely out of a frustrating level of anger. It involves a change of ownership, from deeply caring owners to one of questionable moral integrity. If I received and official warning, it would be a warning for speaking the truth. In others words, it's a way of them saying 'We're warning you about the truth being made public. Stop it or we'll warn you again'. I don't imagine this will happen in the next couple of weeks, the time I have left with this company after having resigned. Their motto (when it comes to staff) is 'If you don't like it, leave'.
At the end of the day, what's happened doesn't change who you are. You are upstanding and supportive and a parent who your child can be proud to have as a guide in their life. You're a lighthouse for your child. Don't let that company take your light. How to stand strong when enormous waves come crashing in is a test of strength.
