Single Parent

AliciaDickson06
Community Member

Hi, I am a single parent of a 3 year old and have been diagnosed with chronic anxiety disorder and depression I am finding it extremely difficult to function my everyday life aswell as being a mum this anxiety takes over my body completely and it’s actually really scary to the point I don’t eat sleep or take care of myself because I am so uncomfortable within myself I can’t do anything 

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Richju
Community Member

Dear Alicia,

I'm so sorry to hear about your diagnosis, especially as you are a single mum with a three year old. 

Becoming a single parent can be scarey, with negative feelings about your  previous relationship and fear about the responsibilities of raising a child alone.

I'm sure you love your little boy and want the best for him but you also need to think about yourself. Do you have family or friends who can help? Please don't be afraid to ask them if become overwhelmed.

Has your doctor suggested a mental health plan or given you advice about local child care so you can have a bit of relief from your parenting duties and time to consentrate on your own needs? 

This forum will be of great help but have you considered contacting one of our counsellors too?

Alicia, I'm sure you love your little boy and want the best for him. As a former single parent myself, I managed my anxiety to some extent, by walking. This was something I could do with my children and we could chat about what we saw during our walks. I realise it's difficult to motivate yourself when you are down but even a short walk can help.

I remember worrying how my kids would turn out but they are fine. I am proud if them and I'm sure you are proud and will continue to be proud of your lovely little son.

Please continue to post Alicia. We are here to support you.

Take care and know that we are ready to listen.

Big warm hugs,

Richju xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

quirkywords
Community Champion
Community Champion

Alicia

welcome to the forum and thanks for reaching out. Rich has written a very supportive post. I agree about walking with your  child. even if it is around your garden or sometimes walking to the letterbox and back was all I could manage.

I hope you are getting support .

is there something both you and your child enjoy, like reading books,blowing bubbles , drawing, or listening to music. It can be any little thing and I know anything takes enormous effort for you.m

You are not alone and we are listening to you. 

would you be able to phone the beyondblue help line and speak to a trained support work. Sometimes talking to someone who understands can help even in an small way. 
1300 22 4636 

thanks again for your honest post which people will relate to.