Does anyone else out there suffer with weird breathing difficulties constantly?

Monicas
Community Member
Hi. I just want to know I'm not alone. I have very weird difficulty breathing as in constantly taking deep breaths which I can't even get. Doctor's keep saying it's anxiety and weight as im a bit fat. Anyone other expensive censor this or advice what to do about it would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you
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therising
Valued Contributor

Hi Monicas

It's amazing how we never really focus on our breathing until the need arises. Weird when you think about it, you can take thousands upon thousands of breaths in your life without being conscious of a single one, until you start becoming conscious of every single one from one point onward.

I can relate to weight being a factor. Lost about 20 kilos some years back and couldn't believe the difference when it comes to how much easier it was to breath. Due to one reason or another, put it all back on again and felt the struggle.

Also, can recall going to see a physio several years back when I was experiencing ongoing pain in my side. Surprised to learn it was from poor breathing habits. She told me that shallow breathing is the kind of breathing runners do; it's not meant to be what we do all the time. Such breathing begins to tax certain muscles when done on a regular basis. She taught me how to breath. I know, sounds strange. The pain I'd had for weeks eventually stopped.

Lots of things can impact our breathing, a lot of the time without us even realising. Stress is definitely impacting. It can create a significant amount of hyperactivity in the body regarding all of our systems (lungs included). Fast shallow breaths challenge our lungs. Interesting how the body tries to manage stress. That occasional long breath out (aka sighing) is one of the ways it manages to regulate our breathing.

Wondering if you've considered looking into experimenting with different breathing techniques. Plenty of breathing meditations out there, specifically designed to get us focused on working our lungs in effective ways, getting the most out of them. Focusing on our abdominal muscles when we breath is something the experts say we should do but rarely actually do. Some natural breathing techniques can actually help with managing anxiety. Breathing our way out of physical hyperactivity when we can feel it starting to ramp up can also actually help alter the chemistry in the brain. Breathing is a pretty powerful thing when it holds not just the potential to keep us alive but also the potential to help us manage our self in multiple ways, mentally and physically.

It can definitely be easy to get into the bad habit of breathing poorly. It can be a habit that's gone on for years that we may not have noticed until it finally becomes noticeable or presents us with problems.

Take care 🙂

Meladjusted
Community Member
Totally.

I've always found it so hard, they say when you have anxiety to just breathe but for me breathing problems is what triggers my anxiety.

I saw a psych, he helped me learn to visualise breathing rather than just telling me to do it and to accept it might feel weird sometimes but as long as I'm breathing it's all good.

Guest_4643
Community Member

Hello Monicas.

I think it's common for people with anxiety, I suffer from it too. If you're worried, maybe have a checkup with your GP to ease your mind a little?

- Tayla

Emmen
Champion Alumni

Hello Monica,

I experience this too, it's my main anxiety symptom and always makes me even more anxious. How I deal with it is to consciously calm myself when I feel my anxiety rising. For instance, every time I feel like I can't get a proper deep breath, I tell myself that there's nothing physically wrong with me. I also unclench my muscles (usually I'll discover at that point that I was unconsciously tensing my body). I try to do mindfulness exercises daily, even if I feel fine. Taking that time out to listen to an exercise from Smiling Mind feels like a weight lifting off me and somehow I feel my breathing issues become less frequent too.

Kindly,
M