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11-01-2018
07:39 PM
Been a while since i have posted and have been in a relatively good space. Until a month ago. My divorce is done ..... that didnt trouble me. Then i find out my visa application stands no chance and now in 8 months i have to leave back to england. I have 2 young children one of whom is a Australian citizen but it seems that even then i have no rights unless i can come up with 100.grand. My world has been shatered and my anxiety is kicking into over drive. I contribute, i work, but still not enough. What do i have to do i scream. I can not cope with the pressure and my lvs are rising. For people in here who know my story my lvs dont know where to stop. That spiral feeling ive tried so hard to fight off in my life is building and my heart is breaking. Please no more kicks in the teeth i carnt take it.
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11-01-2018
08:39 PM
Hi
Sorry i dont know your story but you mentioned you work. Maybe your boss can help you get a work visa or the company can sponsor you. A student visa may also be a possiblity.
Years ago i would have said just find a single freind and arrange to have a marital agreement to help you.
Look outside the box. Try focusing on otherways to stay in Australia.
Good luck. Fingers crossed
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11-01-2018
09:00 PM
I'm sorry for your stress Jonjr
I would have thought one of the kids being citizen would prevent this.
Wondering if you're seeing a pyschologist wether from a MH angle could turn this in your favor.
Do you have any relatives here or grandparents?
All best with this, it does sound very distressing
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