Hi Izelle
What a beautiful question you bring to chat about today. Can I be totally honest with my opinion and say this… I am 46 years old and am still blooming into the person who I will be. I am am also not the same person I was at 30, not the same person I was at 20 and absolutely not the same person I was at high school.
As life bring us beauty, experiences, sadness, growth, wisdom, friends that come and go, people who stay for the long haul… a million different combinations here… but every day we learn and grow and our wings spread and we become a version of ourselves at this moment in time.
I also know that in a few years I will be a different version of me and that to me is so exciting… as I experience more life.
I understand that you feel like you have to have it all figured out.. who you are, what you want to be, what you “should” be doing in life. I am so sorry that we as a society today are putting this expectation on our young people as it to me is rubbish.
If nothing ever happens to us… then nothing ever happens and imagine how boring it would be to go through life as the exact same person… doesn’t sound fun to me!
Start writing maybe, put down some hopes and dreams or what even tomorrow looks like. Even write down the pain and the sadness and now it will pass too… just as the days pass by.
I think also that you don’t need to move quickly… enjoy the moment.. breath in the sunshine that is outside, take a walk and notice the sounds, the people also out, feel the ground at your feet.
Happiness is a journey of every day and not a destination I think Izelle, if we can make today some sort of happy and to it again tomorrow we are on the way…
Can I let you in on a secret? I don’t really think anyone has it figured out! Life is fun like that.
Hope to chat some more to you.
Hugs
Sarah
