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balletgirl101
Community Member

Hey guys, I have just joined and I guess I just wanted some advice from other people that might have a different perspective. 

I have had depression and anxiety for just over three years now. The past 6 months it has gotten a lot worse. 

Last month my boyfriend of almost two years broke up with me. Before he broke up with me he was constantly being told by his best friends that "He deserves better and that I was a bad girlfriend." I'm struggling to let go of the hope that he will want me back and I really want him back. 

During this semester my grades dropped dramatically and more pressure was put on me by mum. 

 

Other things have occurred as well but I don't want to say to much on my first post. I guess my main question is...

How am I meant to cope with everything going on? 

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SeanM92
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hey there
welcome to the forum

Sorry to hear about your situation.

As hard as it is, you may have to let go with your ex. In saying that, if you have found love once, you can find it again, and not someone who is going to listen to there friends over making there own opinion. I apologize if i offend or upset you. 
There is nothing worse then seeing someone broken hearted because of there former partner giving into peer pressure. 

With your mother, have you tried just talking to her? explaining to her whats going on? 
All in all just try and relax, You seem to be a strong person and i believe you can pull through.

Your always welcome here aswell. 
take care and good luck

Thank you 🙂 

I found out the entire truth to why the relationship ended and it was all because of me and being to "caring" so I am going to let go. As hard as it's going to be.

As for mum, I have tried talking to her but all I get from her is even more expectations but I'll try to ignore it. 

 I'll get through this...