hi Meatball, when you're young any commitment is scary, but it can still be there for those who are older as well, because being single and hooking up with someone means a change in your life.
You won't be able to make decisions on your own anymore, it will probably have to be a joint decision where you may not necessarily agree with, but have to, just to keep the peace.
The reason you ignore them is not because you don't like them but afraid to be with them, and it still happens if you don't feel confident in yourself later on in life, but once it does happens it means a change in your lifestyle, you can laugh together, enjoy what each one wants, have a cuddle with a kiss to go with it, don't be afraid to start doing it.
Remember you can always stop the r/ship at anytime, or perhaps the r/ship has gone far enough and don't feel happy being in it, but one day it's going to happen. Geoff.
