hi

[trippytarker]

hi all, im shane 38, ive been going through sum hard times lately and things are starting to pile up, and its has left my feeling pretty bad, i dont have anyone to talk to and would just like sum people to say hello to now and then, thanks

[Mia001]

Hi Shane,

Welcome to the forums! It's nice to see a new face.

If you need to talk about your problems, I'm happy to listen.

Mia

[trippytarker]

Hi Mia thanks, i wish i could talk about my problems i just dont know where to start, because ive never spoken about these things to anyone before, usually i just have a smoke or drop a few shrooms or sumthing and try to forget about things,

[Mia001]

Hi Shane,

You don't have to tell me everything. I have stuff that I've never told anyone. It can be so hard to trust someone, even someone you know really well. Especially when telling it the first time.

You could start with something very general. Maybe how you are feeling or something that has been bothering you lately. You don't have to start with your most hidden secrets! 🙂

It's entirely up to you if you want to talk or not.

Mia

[Mia001]

If you just want to have a chat and relax maybe try The BB Cafe in BB Social Zone section. It's a great place to meet others. Oh, and feel free to check out some of the threads others have posted. Maybe you'll find something that helps!

[trippytarker]

ok thanks, ive just been feeling really stressed and alone lately, ive made so many bad choices that have left me alone and with no friends, am just so sick of bad stuff happening too me its just one thing after another, ive been up all night stressing out, sorry if i dont make much sence am quite tired i didnt get any sleep last night.

[Mia001]

Hi Shane,

It sounds like you've got a lot of problems in your life, and you're overwhelmed. I can't imagine how you must be feeling. If there's no one you feel you can talk to, maybe consider seeing a counsellor/psychologist?

Please don't be too hard on yourself - everyone makes bad choices.

Mia

[trippytarker]

yes i am going to do that thanks, i spoke to a phone councilor this morning because i was feeling really overwhelmed and like i was loosing the plot, they recommended this group, and are helping me to organize to speak to a psychologist

[Mia001]

Hi Shane,

That's great to hear! Taking some steps toward getting support is a good start.

Hope you get some sleep tonight.

Take care of yourself,

Mia

[startingnew]

HI Shane

welcome to the forums 🙂