Hi im new

[Dakahlla]

Hi everyone. I have recently just joined and looking for some support thru a really tough long road ahead.. i a mum of 4 children, my eldest who os 10yrs old has adhd/odd/asd/spd and epilepsy, he has also been diagnosed with anxiety disorder and depression he was also sexually abused by hos father and recently becam a perpetrator himself., my other 3 live with their father due to this. I miss them dearly as the father is not even letting me spend time with them and I am struggling everyday to get thru.. but anyway.. i am hoping to be able to share my stories and hopefully work thru them all with some support.

[kanga_brumby]

Dakahlla a great big welcome to Beyond blue forums. Your input will be greatly appreciated, About me single dad lost partner to cancer. Health went bad on me department has taken my children I still have full access and rights as a parent. But kids will be kids mine hate hospital settings so I don't see mine by their choice. So sadly missed wen they grow old they will understand why they should have seen me. mean time all I can do is still love them so wonder about say hi to some again welcome

Kanga (Peter)

[geoff]

Hello Dakahlla, a warm welcome to you and thanks for posting your comment.

I hope we can be of help for you in this awful situation, where your son is struggling with so many illnesses, which I can definitely relate with, as I have OCD, epilepsy, anxiety and depression, a terrible combination and then to be abused is something no one should ever have to go through.

Please feel as though you have picked up a couple of responders already, who desperately want to help you, others will join in as well.

Can I ask you a couple of questions, to begin with, what help is your son getting and just as importantly, have you been able to see your doctor?

Let's work through this with you together.

Best wishes.

Geoff.

[SPOONO]

Welcome, you're in the best place to express your concerns and get advice from people who really know what it's like to have life bundle up on them. I encourage you to write down all your problems so you can get them out of your head onto something else. Some say if you break something you must repair it with all the love and care you can muster and make it better than it was before it was broken. I think you can do this through all the agencies available to help you and your kids. I wish you all the very best and may all your dreams come true.

spoono