Feeling unwanted

123Bunnygirl456
Community Member
So.. first post. I feel like im not good enough for anyone.
My last 2 ex boyfriends cheated on me.
My current bf ive been with 8 months says he loves me and only wants me...
But he doesnt initiate sex and i found him on a dating site looking for sex
Wondering whats so wrong with me.
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smallwolf
Community Champion
Community Champion

Hi 123Bunnygirl456,

welcome to beyond blue.

The reasons why a partner might cheat on the other person are many and varied. There is nothing wrong with you. I maybe a little old fashioned with what I about to say, but if two people commit to each other, then ..... I think you know where this is heading.

Putting aside the your current partner being on a dating site, have you consider other possibilities why he might not initiate sex? I can only speculate, so this might be something you might consider talking to him about.

What do you want to do?

Tim