Feeling overwhelmed

[Frostyhalf]

Hi. I’m new to talking about my problems but I’m totally overwhelmed at the moment. On top of life’s usual struggles and coping with isolation I have a landlord who has made my life hell ever since I moved in. Now he has told me to move out because I asked him not to do an inspection because of the virus. I have suffered from anxiety and depression for over 20 years and am on a disability pension. I have put up with this run down house so I could keep my cats but now I can’t find anything can afford and keep my cats. They are the only thing that gets me out of bed in the morning. Just thinking about applying for anything makes me break down. This procrastination is making me run out of time.

[white knight]

Hi, welcome

what a problem!

I can only say what I would do frosty. I would have allowed him an inspection and not re-entered the house for a couple of hours. It might be still salvageable? Contact him and tell him you will allow him to inspect but your reason was the virus concerns.

The other issue is future accommodation. I’m also on DSP so I understand . If you have some savings then buying a cheap caravan might be an option you haven’t thought about. Many vans are only $2000-3000. That gives you mobility, freedom from landlords and freedom to move. Your cats will adapt also.

You could pay rent in someone’s backyard. Try to get one with toilet and shower if your vehicle can tow it. Ask any questions about this option as I’ve just built my second caravan and am well versed.

TonyWK

[Sophie_M]

Hey Frostyhalf, welcome to the Beyond Blue forums. We're glad that you've found your way here. 

We're sorry to hear how overwhelmed you are at the moment, we sympathise with how stressful a time it is to be looking for a new place to live. We're also sorry to hear you might have to give away your cats. We understand how important pets are to our wellbeing and know this would be a very painful process. Please know that you've come to a safe, non-judgemental space to talk about your thoughts and feelings, and our wonderful community is here to provide you with as much support, advice and conversation as you need.
If you feel up to it, we'd recommend reaching out to our Coronavirus Mental Wellbeing Support Service. The website will be regularly updated with information, advice and strategies to help you manage your wellbeing and mental health during this time. You can also call our dedicated support line, staffed by mental health professionals, which is available 24/7 on 1800 512 348.
We hope that you keep checking in to let us know how you're going, whenever you feel up to it. 
  Keep us updated whenever you feel up to it. 

[Frostyhalf]

Unfortunately this landlord has made my life very hard. He doesn’t follow any landlord rules but imposes rediculous rules on me like three monthly inspections on a house not fit to live in. It’s asbestos and full of mould just to mention a few things. I do want to get a van but have no savings and not physically able to do much but just trying to look at ads for houses upsets me let alone applying. I am spending too much time alone because of isolation and getting too depressed to get out of bed some days.

[white knight]

Hi frosty

I understand your lack of motivation- but you have to sometimes go against the tide.

It doesn’t matter that the house isn’t worth inspecting, it’s his house and he wants to inspect it. Are you going to wait until the police extract you? What will then happen to your cats?

Time to act and swallow your pride. That will give you time to plan

TonyWK

[Curious77]

Your having a real hard time not only mentally but physically as well because of the terrible state of the house and you have rights. I hope a tenent advocate can come to your aid to stand up for your rights so that your protected against such terrible landlords.