Emotion v facts / police need training

[RedDragon]

Hi 

I have been feeling down and did not know where to go - work stress - busy mechanical/ fuel shop I do admin service advisor babysit and heaps more to carry on with. daughter on ice wants help then does not and makes me believe she will get well and it hurts me when she doesn’t accept any help our family offers. I don’t want to put that on my partner as I see it upsets him when I am upset.  So I avoid talking to him. We live so remote and friends are not here to talk to no family. Work people are work people they only see me.  Remote don’t have mail everyday or letter boxes we do not even have a place to get a good cappuccino! Or buy clothes or even fresh fruit and veg. 
I have chronic pain in my foot that will not allow me to walk or exercise or work for more then 2 hrs by then I am dragging my whole leg around and I can’t get the pain away until I rest for 6 hrs elevated- that makes me so cranky. I got on to medication that helps my foot and keeps me active and happy in my head. But then the doctor lied and said no changes to script and 1/2 the amount & extended interval days - I was going through withdrawal from the meds my anxiety in creased a lot and I had no sleep for 3 nights I was not eating well or at all. I went to shop for food seen my boss and I just stop to say see ya Monday but I started to cry and then I said I want it to end - he took it as suicidal and I was then questioned by police and they convinced me from 1100 am to 8pm that I was in a DV relationship and I just agreed by the end of it all. I was telling them I am not myself as my partner he has his head on he don’t know I am here please see him and the police said we deal with DV all the time and you are being controlled. They took all my blubber and tired and in pain and twisted my words they wanted me to put dvo on and I refused- they did one on my behalf 

I can’t go home to the place I pay rent.

He does not work and has not for a few months so my boss hates him and thinks he is using me. They don’t know what we have done before we moved to this death stink town. They just assume he not work he controls me - I go home for lunch my boss said it must be because he controls me. I go home to take medicine at lunch they did not ask why I go home. I don’t go out to work social- drrrr I see ya all week I want to see my partner and be at home where I pay for and love being. 

Thanks to the police I now have extra stress 

By me I have to pay 300 for rent and then 770 to have a place to stay while the wet season starts getting wild. 

[Phoenixgotburnt]

This is quite a complex and stressful situation youre in, I dont know what to suggest beyond maybe finding a new place to live/work/be happy? Im sorry all this is going on for you and i hope you find a solution, or at least a partial fix, as soon as possible. This all sounds untenable, as in theres no way you can keep on like this. Id start by looking for work elsewhere (somewhere less remote probably), and then find the home and means to move to make it happen. Best of luck.