Hello,
I'm very new to this but I need some advice. I've read posts from other women in a similar situation but each is missing a key issue that I have.
My husband had depression when he was younger but when we were first together he became much better. Now 9 years on we are married and expecting our first bub, usually a time for joy!
My husbands work levels have been crazy, much to his own fault in taking it on, recently he was working away for a month or two on his own. Whilst away, his depressive thoughts came back, worse than ever.
He now obsesses over my past with other guys, it's not really that extensive but he obsessively questions me... Being so long ago I've forgotten most of it and then due to my inconsistent facts, he gets frustrated and obsesses even more. It has been non-stop now for 8 days, and when he's frustrated he doesn't talk or look at me.
What on earth do I do? He is not medicated and really doesn't want to be, but now I'm low on energy and positivity. I'm worried how this is effecting bub too.
I'm also not sure if this is just Depression now or something else?
Thankyou in advance!
