Hello Mamalife, and a warm welcome, I'm sorry your post hasn't been replied to, but I've found out from my own days, that as soon as someone says says 'they're fine', usually indicates there may be a problem because we tend to deny how we actually feel and say it only because we want other people to believe that everything is OK, this can be far from the truth.
Admitting to a problem is the first step to begin to feel better, and there is nothing wrong in wanting this.
I know it's best for him to have his medication reviewed by his doctor, the trouble is getting him there, but perhaps you could make an appointment for him and encourage him to visit his GP and suggest you can go with him if that's what he needs, or wait in the waiting room until he has finished with the doctor.
Another option is to suggest that his doctor has been asking how he is coping with what has, unfortunately, happened in the past and would like to just have a chat, even though he believes he is coping, it's only a checkup.
The best part is that he has admitted he is not feeling his best a few months ago, remind him of this and explain that he's not showing much improvement and that his medication may need to be changed.
I feel very sorry for both of you because I've plus been in, along with many others in the same position and know that it's most unpleasant, but need to accept that help is around the corner.
This family tragedy has obviously created a dark pattern for him and only hope we can be of some assistance because I suffered in denial for far too long before I accepted I needed help.
We hope you can get back to us because this is very important to help your husband.
My best wishes.
Geoff.
