Hi, I have suffered clinical Depression for the past 19 years. It has been rough but have been very lucky to have great support from my husband. Our 14 year old son has suffered anxiety on and off growing up. This year he started not eating because he felt so anxious he felt too ill to eat. he ended up in hospital after being diagnosed with Anorexia. Four months later after now being on an antidepressant, his eating has improved but now he is severely depressed. He is having fortnightly counselling. Meds are still being reviewed and increased. When he does go to school he comes home and goes straight to bed. All weekend and school holidays he is in bed. He no longer wants to do anything he previously enjoyed like surfing. He doesn't want to socialize. His grades have slipped dramatically.
Has anyone reading this who has had depression for a long time, had a child also with Depression. I blame myself for putting my son through this. It scares me and although I know how he is feeling I feel
helpless to know how to help him. Would love to hear from anyone who can relate to me and share anything that can be helpful.
I spoke with my GP today and he said that like some other illnesses it can be hereditary, but I shouldn't blame myself as it wont do my health any good by blaming myself, its not going to change whats happening. Makes sense.
