Vent and then let it go...

Guest_1055
Community Member

Not sure about anyone else but sometimes I just need to vent, including venting any frustrations, fears, hopes, worries, longings and anything else. Most of the time I don't want any advice or any responses. Just need a way to get it all out from within me.

So thought this thread could be for those sort of things. No one replys to you with words or anything. It's a place to let it all go. Just dump whatever it is you want to say and leave it here.

So yeah no replys please.

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ecomama
Valued Contributor

Feeling pretty cranky that the vet left metal staples in my daughter's dog grrrr AND tried to charge her for removing them! She refused to pay, it was ALL inclusive in the quote.

AND tried to charge her for removing the ones they left in today! Repeat response.

omg I wish they'd realise that NOW we have OPTIONS.
There never used to be many options here, so maybe they'll learn.

We're all changing vets to one who our friends have used for 15 years.

Also what upset us was what Alexa heard them saying right behind a door about a deceased pet, it was cruel and uncaring and she was panicking that it was her dog.
So my feedback will include this too.

We gave them feedback on the terrible condition pup left the surgery and they apologised and tried to make amends but none of their workers felt this way.

Onwards and upwards I guess.... moving on.

CMF
Blue Voices Member

Great thread!

My partner's sister lives with him and his boys - owns part of the house since his divorce. He has a really bad back atm and I'm so sick of him doing everything while she just worries about herself. Her crap is all over the kitchen and living room, i never see her do housework or clean. The pool is green and he was trying to clean it but struggling with his back. Her and her bf use it, she is always sunbaking so why can't she clean the damn pool, after all, she owns part of the house now. I'm so damn sick of it, of her and her crap being around all the time.

Guest_1055
Community Member

Starting TAFE tomorrow.

Feeling scared, so I am choosing to let go. But I am also feeling a bit excited, as I do like adventures. So I am going to hold onto that

Ggrand
Community Champion

Good luck Shelly tomorrow starting Taffe...you’ll do good...You got this lovely lady....

Deep breathe if and when you need to...

We are all right next to you...cheering you on..

Guest_4643
Community Member

Feeling bad now about my earlier comment saying my GP doesn't help. He helped me today but I had to nag him, and distract him. Luckily he didn't ask me about a Psychologist so that worked.

Turns out I have Asthma though and to make it worse, I'm that stupid I can't use the Inhaler properly. I really have no IQ, I'm so stupid. No wonder I didn't finish year 10 and left, I'm surprised I even made it that far. Like who doesn't know how? Little kids do. I'm so god damn dumb.

Matchy69
Blue Voices Member
Tayla you are not dumb.It is new to you and just need time to get use to it.

Ggrand
Community Champion

Tayla....you’re not stupid or dumb at all..please don’t be so hard on yourself....

I was diagnosed with Asthma after the horrid dust storms we got in 1999...and it took me a while to be able to use it...even now some days I don’t get it right.,,,It takes patience and practice to do anything well....

Keep trying and you’ll get there....

Grandy..

Thanks Grandy and Mark, but I am.

Everything is so hard lately, everything going on. They won't fix my bunion (same with another patient who had a referral done there) at the hospital where my Doctors is (30 mins away). He said I should go to the city (3 hours), Mum has to go there tomorrow. I think I'll stay home, the city triggers me, I hate it.

So I asked if I could go to a hospital 1 hr & 15 mins away, he said he'll do a referral. I need an ultrasound since my last period was heavy & I'm on the pill.

I don't like being home alone but I should be ok. I'm WAY too dependant on my parents and that's disgraceful at 21 - I can't do anything. I can barely cook. I learnt at school but the teacher helped me with most of it even if I didn't ask.

Sigh, so I really am dumb, but thank you. I know a few people are dependant on others when they have mental illnesses. This is part of my AVPD (Avoidant Personality Disorder) also. For example those who live in mental health housing, those with disabilities, etc.

Sorry for rambling, everything sucks & everything comes at once for me.

Guest_4643
Community Member
Had a bad day, so I'm feeling depressed and suicidal (I'm safe). I tried speaking to Lifeline. I got distracted and did something while I wait, they cut me off. I forgot the screen was up, I guess that's my fault. Sigh.

Guest_1055
Community Member

I couldn't do it.. Tears now sitting in the car park.

I arrived at the TAFE. Managed to find where I needed to go. Saw everyone else in uniform but me.

What was I thinking... The teacher chef showed us around, like fire exits, lockers etc. Then said that we will be working in the cafeteria until 2pm. So I walked with everyone else in through the kitchen, which was massive. A full commercial kitchen. With many chrome benches, pots, bowls. She said she would get me a uniform. As she was showing us things, the panic started to increase. Their were students in their chef uniforms all around me. Thoughts of working in this environment freaked me out.

I did not think much more, just made my way through the people, walking around them back out.

I cannot do it... too much... In a daze...