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Self Acceptance & Finding myself... sorta

Yoga_has_changed_my_life
Community Member

Hi All

I am a 30 yr old female living in Melbourne but born in Sydney. I want to share my story to raise awareness and help others. Happy Mental Heath Week!! I was formally diagnosed with 'mood disorder' recently but had an episode in 2012 - largely due to major life events e.g a few bad things happened all at once and I just broke down..matters didn't help that a friend of over 20yrs excluded me from being her matron of honour because I wouldn't smile in photos or because I was depressed. Looking back I guess I don't blame her because weddings are stressful and the last thing she wanted was to have to worry about me. I get it. I equally was stressed on my own wedding day however this action by her and decision she made lead to my hospiliasiation. All I wanted was a hug from her assurance that everything would be ok but she kicked me whilst I was so down. Being from a Italian background mental illness (I thought) was seen as a weakness but as I have shared my story many people have shared back and I realised a few things 1 - mental Heath issues are so common and 2 as a community we are not discussing it.

my story is long so I won't go into the details but what I will share is don't be ashamed, be yourself, be proud, do what you love for me that is Yoga, spending time with family Friends and my beautiful husband and of course my fur baby Cavoodle.

if your in a dark place please trust me it will pass. Talk to someone anyone that will listen and Support you in a positive way. Trust your gut instinct if your seeing a Dr and you feel they are not right get a 2nd opinion. Remember what you loved doing and if you can't get someone to remind you or try to find something different!

Whatever your feeling it will pass. Sit in the sunshine - just think of 1 thing your greatful of. And if you can't I'll give you one... your on here reading this... amazing be proud of yourself. I hope this story helps one person. By sharing was really hard for me I am sitting here in tears.

I am a HR business Partner and also help my husband run his mechanic business. I am Intrested in yoga and reiki and want to learn more. I love dogs especially my baby. Love the sunshine and a big supporter of LGBTI community and raising awareness for mental health. I was was inspired to share my story after listening to Jason Ball last night at an Event in Melbourne

YOU should always be yourself. You are amazing. Always remind yourself that. Every day. It will then become second nature

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MarkJT
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Yoga, that is a good a first post as i have read. Just brilliant and a fabulous story. Thank you so much for posting it and welcome to the forums. Your experience, positive nature and insight will be extremely valuable to those that have lost those qualities due to mental injuries and illnesses.

The more people that take a stance and help educate others and help those that are struggling will result in the stigma being erased which is the ultimate aim for all of us.

Great stuff.

Mark.

TheSteve
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Thanks Yoga, a lovely read. We really appreciate you sharing your experiences and knowledge. You are right on when you say "it will pass". It always does. The one permanent thing in this universe is that nothing is permanent.

Good luck on your journey. I have had wonderful experiences over the years reading authors such as Thich Nhat Hanh, Seung Sahn, Eckhart Tolle, Dennis Lewis, and others who have provided guidance spiritually, emotionally, and physically. It is one big journey.

All my best to you.

Steve

Thank you Mark!

Wow!

Yoga; you're spreading the love. Welcome to our community of caring people. There is definitely room for kind and expressive people like you. We welcome you with open arms.

It would be lovely if you could stick around and continue to inspire. I for one will read with enthusiasm; many more will follow.

Thankyou and happy mental health week too.

Just great...

Dizzy (Hugs)

By the way Yoga...I'm here for you too as are many of our wonderful posters. Don't be afraid to ask for help or tell some more of your story.

Warm and kind thoughts...Dizzy x

Thank you Dizzy!

HomerJay
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Yoga; it's amazing how optimistic your post is with such a heavy story, it's very inspiring! we need more people like yourself in the world.

take care,

cbehd

HomerJay
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Yoga; it's amazing how optimistic your post is with such a heavy story, it's very inspiring! we need more people like yourself in the world. take care, chris