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Miracle's do happen

Evilnut
Community Member

Hi I have been on this site for three days. After spending 8 years in the darkness's feeling hopeless and lost. I have had a break thru the last two days have been so fulfilling laughter's no physical tremors or anxious moment. Plus no bad thoughts the only thing I change was to talk on this site and ask for help which came from every one I wrote to and from. You are all champion's thanks 1 and all I am now looking forward to life one day at a time

1 happy evilnut

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blondguy
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

Hey Evilnut 🙂

What a wonderful post!

You are a legend for having posting in the first place Wayne. It took me a lot longer than you did to have the guts to write my first thread early last year...seriously

Thankyou so much for the crackerjack thread topic/super compliment....Feedback like yours is GOLD

Great to have you as a part of the Beyond Blue forum Family

Go Ford 😉

Paul

Evilnut
Community Member

Its people that made the difference to air my life challenges to. I have only just told police a mouth ago about my assault at 8 years of age. Still waiting for reply I have waited 49 years so what's a few more weeks it want change the person I have become. That 7 year old boy has been finally released to be happy again. I will of course have to keep working on myself so I can try help others were possible in my walk of life it want be easy but up for it I want more 7year old boy happens YIPPIE

Thanks one happy evilnut

Hey Evilnut.....Good on you for notifying the police about what happened to you. You are a legend

49 years of suffering....oh my lord...Im sorry....thats huge major pain....but its great that you are happy EN!

To hear you this happy is a gift to the forums as whole.....not to mention the thousands of people that choose to only read the forums for help as well...

You have just helped so many people by saying you have found some peace 🙂 Yay!!

Your thread is wonderful....what else can I say....except you have made me smile tonight too

Paul

Evilnut
Community Member

Thanks a lot that means so much to me,if Irena had not taken me to her house I think I may have taken the next step from what I tried in October were I just ended up I a mental hospital. Irena is my ex wife everybody had a guarding angle she is mine thank god for her and she gave me your pamphlet. The rest is history so far

I now have a bright light in my future because I will always have this site to ask for help and maybe give something back to the public

Happy evilnut out 10/4 blondguy you r a true champion of the people.

You are a very lucky guy to have Irena as your guardian angel.....

Your posts are just as important as mine EN.....there is no difference 🙂

Can you let Irena know from me that she is a super legend for giving you that pamphlet?

Now we have Evilnut as part of our family!!!

Great Stuff EN

Paul

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi Evilnut,

Wow, how great to hear how you are now feeling after so much suffering. Thank you for spreading the joy and i hope we continue to see you on the threads, there is lot of fun to be had in the social zone, i think i have already seen you there?

Yes, Paul is a legend isn't he 🙂

cmf

geoff
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni
hi Wayne, it is an enormous favour to all of us to have you on board, because when someone joins our site whether it's good news or disappointing situations, it brings another story to the forum which will benefit other people.
Whether it's taken you 49 years to report an incident only means that you are gaining strength, and it doesn't matter how long this takes, but when you do then you must be feeling a different person.
Guardian angels like Irena are such a blessing and I also know that I have a couple watching me, that gives us both hope and strength to power on, and Paul has been one your main supporters and I also regard him as a legend. Geoff.

Evilnut
Community Member

Thank you for all the good wish's it been a long battle but I am feeling more positive about my future. I now look forward to a life that I want to get as much out of by surrounding myself with fun loving people and try to assist other.

So glad I fort off that blackness and reached out to share my store not knowing what would happen glad I did

Happy cheers evilnut Wayne.

Hey Wayne;

Every now and then, someone like you comes along who inspires with their courage and determination. Booyar!

Your battle with the past and now confronting your abuse/abuser, takes more than most people could ever realise. I for one do. I'm shaking my head and smiling in awe. 🙂

The more adults who get to court with their shocking stories of childhood hurt, the quicker our systems will change. My friend did it in her 30's and her father went to prison for 8 yrs; no time for good behaviour either!

More importantly, she regained self empowerment and faith in herself. She now heads up a child sexual assault team. Hope springs eternal...

Sez x