Hey there, how are you? PsychedelicFur here again!
well I recently discovered tonight that my toxic ex partner had unblocked on a social media platform. Feeling proud of myself because shortly after my discovery I blocked him on both profiles and on other apps too. I’m feeling actually pretty good that I did that. Not allowing him to ‘check in’ on me or try any hoovering techniques to rope me back in. Standing up for my beliefs and if I keep him blocked for as long as I need to heal for then I will be so very happy. My main responsibility at the moment is to take care of myself and not get myself involved with something that would only destruct my recent self discovery and development. It would only jeopardise every single piece of knowledge and healing I have done over the last few weeks. I did not wish him Happy Easter or Happy Birthday and again with that I am so much stronger than what I thought.
Hello PF, you have made the right decision and that takes strength, good on you and by doing this means you can now be able to move forward.
There may be a temptation to have a peek, but once you do this, you leave the door open, which will mean that you're open to being disappointed, keep the door closed.
