Hi 60Incon_
I feel for you so much, given how unprofessional and immature your masseuse sounds and how deeply this is impacting you. I'm wondering whether you're able to find someone different, someone who will give you the consideration and respect you deserve.
You just gotta scratch your head when it comes to some people. Why can they not feel what they're saying or doing? I imagine if they were in the same position they'd definitely feel the impact of such behaviour. With a lack of their personal experience and a lack of education (when it comes to how the human body works and a variety of needs required in order to accommodate it), we can end up meeting people who don't consider the mental and soulful kind of needs that are also required under the circumstances. Some people can be mentally disturbing and soul destroying and we shouldn't have to be putting up with that kind of thing, as an added challenge. Technically, a masseuse should be relaxing, not anxiety inducing and depressing. I suppose you could say, if anyone was to ask you if you know of any anxiety inducing depressing masseuses, 'I know just the one for you'. It's a shame you've had to meet with such a person. Hoping the next one is exactly the right masseuse for you.
