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My partner treats me with silence and won’t talk
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21-07-2020
08:55 PM
I’m currently in a relationship where I constantly try to engage my partner in a conversation, all I get is one word answers and excuses about why he isn’t available to talk right now, when I get frustrated and angry he tells me i’m over reacting and i’m imagining it all because he does talk. I can’t tale it anymore i feel I’m going mad !!!!!
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21-07-2020
09:09 PM
Hi Pinkjules1984,
Good communication is critical in any relationship and is the key to relationship survival.
Does he need time to express himself. Some ppl open up in time, others r simply closed books.
Getting angry and frustrated is understandable but might make him close up.
Perhaps he's not the best communicator and just doesn't feel comfortable talking. Some ppl r like that.
Feel free to share more if u like.
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Good communication is critical in any relationship and is the key to relationship survival.
Does he need time to express himself. Some ppl open up in time, others r simply closed books.
Getting angry and frustrated is understandable but might make him close up.
Perhaps he's not the best communicator and just doesn't feel comfortable talking. Some ppl r like that.
Feel free to share more if u like.
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21-07-2020
09:32 PM
He is an amazing communicator just not with me. Working from home has allowed me to see the man I fell in love with. The way he talks to people with his job and his work colleagues is the man I fell in live with. I barely get more than 1 word at a time out of him. I can’t take it anymore
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21-07-2020
09:42 PM
Hi Pinkjules,
Oh ok. Do U know why he's resisting communication?
That would be beyond frustrating.
I sincerely hope he starts talking...
Oh ok. Do U know why he's resisting communication?
That would be beyond frustrating.
I sincerely hope he starts talking...
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21-07-2020
09:57 PM
No idea when challenged he makes comments like he’s too busy with work, he didn’t hear me, i’m over reacting he does talk and I’m making it up etc. What ever i say he has a teenager response too. I’m at then end of the road and I can’t take it anymore
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