Dinosaur,
Thank you so much for your strength in sharing your story with us and for being so open, we warmly welcome you to the forums.
I'm so sorry to hear that you've gone through this, and that it continues to affect you. It sounds like an incredibly tough situation to be in. Your compassion and empathy for her children is admirable. That mindset will be very powerful in seeking a resolution for this situation. Good on you for looking out for them in the way that they likely need and would appreciate.
Have you been to a GP, therapist, or psychologist about how you're feeling? Professional advice, insight, and support can be really impactful when you're struggling, and it can also be a powerful reminder that you don't have to struggle alone. They might have some good advice for how to support your sister's children whilst also supporting your own health.
It may also be worth having a look online into local organisations and resources for family members or loved ones of people struggling with addiction. This may be a good place to start when you're working out a solution for the care of your sister's children.
I hope this helps, and just know we're here for you if you need to chat some more.
Take care, SB
