Advice/ Answers about a relationship
This post is a little bit different but I am writing it with a heavy heart and in hope for some answers. I was with my partner for over two years. I know it sounds cliché but I was in honestly the greatest relationship. We never fought, it was easy, we always had fun and it was very loving. We recently broke up and I don’t understand why and no one (my friends, his friends, my family) saw it coming or understands why as everyone felt the same way about us as I did. I know he has always had anxiety, but he used to tell me he wouldn’t know what he got it over or it would usually come after a weekend of drinking. He struggled giving or
Hello Sabre and a warm welcome to you.
I'm sorry for what's been happening and as you say ' he has always had anxiety', so I wonder if he suffers from this and turns to alcohol to mask how he feels.
What can happen is for him to decide to move away not because he doesn't love you, but because he thinks his illness will disappear, unfortunately, it will only make it love you more.
Can I suggest that you see your doctor and also ask if he will do the same because there seems to be something that is stopping the two of you being together in a loving
Hope to hear back from you.
You also ask what you should do, well as you
Thank you for your quick response.
I've encouraged him to see someone and I know he has booked in to see someone up there but dont know if he has yet seen them as I havent spoken to him since.
We were speaking, as I wanted to be there for him but it just made it harder for me as I would miss him even more so we decided we should stop.
Im trying to just give him space and focus on myself but it's just so hard when I still dont really understand why we've broken up.
Hi Sabre, I'm pleased you have asked him to see someone and really understand how tough it must be for you because I would be feeling exactly the same as you, but now is the time to concentrate on yourself, and when he does get help the first thing he may do is want you back.
Love is such a complicated word, it's something we can never predict but when it happens there's nothing better, but breaks our heart as soon as it stops.
Please look after yourself.