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Dealing with trauma

NadineT
Community Member
Hi.
I'm in need of huge help...
I had a bad relationship a few years back and I just can't get past it.
I have tried to ask for help but I keep getting palmed off.
I feel like this has broken me again and I don't know what's to do.
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Hi Sleepy21,

I'm sorry to hear that you've been through something similar.
I do blame him for his actions and his inability to accept the fact that it's so wrong. Apart of me feels responsible for his future partners, I wanted to let his parents know why I had to leave him but just couldn't bring myself to do it.
You sound so strong inside, I wish I had a bit of that. I hope your pain is less everyday.

Guest_1643
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi Nadine,
Thanks for your empathy -

You are trying to find closure and put right what was wrong, i so understand you. I'm really sorry for what you went through from this person.

I went through it for many years before I got help....I think you have strength, too.
I was really touched that you said that about me, was almost crying!

thank you