You have endured an awful year losing parents, grandparent, and in-law in close succession - not something to process without much soul searching for answers which just won't be there.
It's sad to hear of siblings' accusations - possibly out of frustration as they try to grapple with similar anguish.
At times like these, family really needs to come together for one another in solidarity, putting aside speculations and pointing fingers. In the grand scheme of things it serves no useful purpose to apportion blame.
While a little sordid, you can contact executors of any Wills to claim funeral expenses from the estate or insurance policies.
Find some solace at least in knowing they are at peace and you did everything within your capacity to support them. Set you sights now on picking up the pieces and rebuilding your lives in a quest for new and more positive experiences to come.
