Why do I feel so useless

[Crybabyyxx]

My mother is a bad person and she makes me feel like I’m stupid. She makes me feel like everything’s gone wrong because of me and she constantly tells me how much I over eat even though I’m a growing person. I try and try to make her happy but she always gets mad at me and says I’m better off sitting there, being useless. She doesn’t know how sad I am and I just lost my best friend. She told me it didn’t matter and that SHE only had 2-3 friends when she was my age. I need help, please help me 😞

[Sophie_M]

Dear Crybabyyxx
 
Welcome to the Beyond Blue forums we are so glad that you have made you way here and had the bravery to post. We want you to know that this is a safe space to discuss your thoughts, feelings and experiences and receive honest responses and suggestions from fellow forum users.
 
We are sorry to hear that you are going through this with your Mum and it's understandable that you would be feeling this way having been spoken to in that way, at a time when you truly need encouragement and support, it's not ok.  While you are waiting for someone to respond to your post, we thought that the following support service might be of some help and which has lots of useful resources on gaining a deeper understanding of what you have spoken about this evening:


1800 RESPECT Click Here or call 1800 737 732 and also
1800 RESPECT Chat online Click Here
 
If ever you feel like you need to talk this through, we are also here 24/7 on 1300 22 4636 or via our Webchat Click Here .  Our team who answer the phones are ready to have a supportive and non-judgmental chat whenever you need it.
 
We’re sure you will hear from some of our lovely community members here on your thread soon. They’re a really amazing community, and will have understanding, advice and kind words for you.  Thanks again for sharing. It’s a powerful and brave first step towards feeling better.
 
Regards 
 
Sophie M