dear Sharky, welcome aboard, and I'm sorry about your dad passing away, especially if your connection was close.
A country is fantastic only when you feel well, because with depression nothing is good.
Just curious as to whether your wife suffered from PND after your second child.
A couple of personal questions, so please don't be upset.
Have you had any thoughts that your second child is from someone else, and that's why you get cross with her, or maybe that you weren't ready to have another child.
Talking about having sex with your spouse or partner is a delicate topic to talk about, as there are many females on this site, who may indeed do things differently in their marriage or relationship, however I can say what happened with me in our marriage.
We were married for 26 years but the last 10 years as well there was nothing between us, and that's because I was depressed, and she slept in another room, and to be courting a girl again would be great, but that won't be happening for me anyway.
To be sending and receiving explicit emails must have meant that you were an inch from something happening, and your wife being able to view these messages, certainly means a trust issue now.
As well as seeing your doctor I would suggest consulting a marriage counsellor, as there will be a lot of rebuilding this relationship. Geoff.
