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Just heard sad news

Jo3
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I just heard some sad news that my husbands close friend to his mum has passed away.  She was sick in hospital for 5 weeks.  My husband spent a lot of time with this lady and her family when he was growing up.,  

But it brings a lot of emotion to me at the moment because I'm thinking about her poor husband and 2 adult children and grandchildren. 

So I'm thinking what about my parents - what if something was to happen to them or one of them? God why am I even thinking like this, I feel so sad, I;m crying. (this is so selfish of me, i should be thinking of that poor family and not me)

I'm sorry if this post sounds so wrong

Jo

 

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amamas
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Hey Jo

Big hugs!!

I don't think there was anything wrong with your post.  

Painful stuff often triggers our own painful stuff.

Feeling for you.

More big hugs Amamas

Suzbj
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Hey Jo, 

Big hugs from me too. Wish there was something I could say that would help. Take care of yourself – cheers Susan xx

vip
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Hope your ok Jo yes why do these things happen so close to xmas we can only hope and prayer the family gets through this all. Take care