I’m broken

[Coadie]

I need help, I loved her and she’s hurting, I’m hurting. She said she needs time to heal, she said I can’t help but that’s all I want to do. I just want to help her, I can’t even help myself

[blondguy]

Hello Coadie

Being broken is painful.....I understand where you are coming from and it can be a dark place

The forums are judgement free and safe place for you to post (as you know)

Its very hard to help ourselves when our focus is on a loved one. I understand you Coadie

May I ask you what your partner meant when she said 'she needs time to heal' (if thats okay) If you wish to elaborate we can help support you more effectively

you are not alone here.....and good on you for having the strength to post too

I really hope you can post back when its convenient

My kind thoughts for you in this awful time you are going through

Paul

[Coadie]

She suffers from depression and some other mental issues. She is scared that if the relationship continues she’s going to drag me down with her as I’m hurt myself. I want to help her, this hasn’t made anything better, only worse