I don’t know what to do anymore

[Ni_]

Recently my boyfriend has become distant towards me and idk if it’s actually because I couldn’t see him that one day or something else is going on...but it’s really made things hard for me to even sleep or eat... even going to my uni classes has been a struggle. I’m scared of being alone it really makes me feel worthless and not wanted I don’t really have friends to talk to because of my social anxiety I struggle to talk to people and make friends and he’s been so good to me until recently and It’s been hurting me a lot Knowing imma lose him and go back to being alone again.

[Sophie_M]

Hello Ni_, 

Welcome to the forums 🙂 This is a great community full of wonderful, welcoming and warm people. It is a great place to share so thank you for being brave and coming to us today. 

It sounds like you are having a tough time with your relationship. It can be really stressful to be unsure about where we stand in a relationship and we understand how challenging that can be. 

We hope that you can find some support here on the forums and we encourage you to have a look around at other threads and conversations. 

Thank you again for having the courage to post on the forums and seek support, it is a wonderful step to take. Please feel free to update us on how you are going if you feel comfortable.

Kind regards,

Sophie M

[Ggrand]

Hello Dear Ni_.,

A very warm and caring welcome to the forums..

Im sorry that your struggling with your relationship atm..they can get complicated if we try to guess what is going one with our partners....

Im wondering if you could maybe contact your boyfriend and ask him out for a coffee and ask him if he is upset with you over not seeing him on that day with him..or if you said or done something to upset him with you...Being at home and not knowing why he isn’t talking to you anymore will only probably put scenarios in to your thoughts and start you overthinking,,,,,If he really does care for you..he should find the time to talk to you and sort things out..

I hope that you can work things out with your boyfriend...

My kindest thoughts dear Ni_..

Grandy