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I am new. Hello.
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Umm, this is kinda embarrassing.😬 I-I don't really know what to say.
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I can say that I like you already.😁
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We can hear how trapped and worried you must be feeling right now, but please know that you are not alone in this. As our caring community have mentioned, it can be so difficult to keep these feelings bottled up inside, and we think it might really help to be able to talk them through. If you're feeling a bit worried about talking to your mum, do you think you might like to get in touch with the friendly counsellors at Kids Helpline that we mentioned earlier? If you aren't comfortable talking on the phone, they also have online chat available 24/7 at https://kidshelpline.com.au/get-help/webchat-counselling
Our friends at Lifeline also have online chat from 7pm-midnight at https://www.lifeline.org.au/crisis-chat/ as well as a text service option from 12pm-midnight at https://www.lifeline.org.au/crisis-text/ The kind and understanding counsellors can offer support and advice, including how to start the conversation with your mum, or perhaps a close family member or friend you feel comfortable with to help you through this really tough time.
We're all here for you Angel_Joy.
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Hey Angel_Joy.
I'm really sorry to hear that your Mum isn't supportive and doesn't understand you, and your Sister. I can't imagine how hard that must be for you. I really wish I could do more, I'm sorry I can't. But please know, like Sophie said, we're all here for you, and we call here. I'm doing what I can for you, just being there.
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Hi Angel Joy
It’s a shame that you’re not close with Mum. I can imagine that might make you feel lonely.
It’s interesting that you wish someone could talk to Mum for you. Is there anyone in your life that you feel close to who might be able to help? Could be a teacher, Auntie or Uncle, sports coach, neighbour or even the parent of a friend?
Kind thoughts to you
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Thank you for being here, means alot to me.
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Hi Angel Joy
I’m sorry your sister let you down and that your mum overlooked your letter. The sad truth is that a lot of people don’t get mental health. And they are scared of what they don’t understand.
But you and I both know that anyone can fall ill at any time. There is no shame in being unwell. Now here’s the really important bit: people may fall ill but they also get better. And that’s why I want you to keep thinking about trying to get help.
The good news is that you told us and we get it. You were smart and brave to find your way here and we’ll just keep working the problem till we come up with a plan.
I think it might help to reduce your fear if we could break down the task of telling someone.
Let’s start by trying to work out if you think you could try talking to someone anonymously? If you think you could try that, Kids Helpline is great.
They are trained professionals who help children like you all the time. There is nothing you could say that would shock them. No need to be embarrassed. If you don’t feel comfortable you just hang up the phone.
The other option is to think about school because you’ll be back to soon. Does your school have a counsellor? Do you have an old favourite teacher?
How are you feeling tonight?
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