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How to not feel isolated and lonely??
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24-11-2016
07:42 PM
Anyone got any tips on how someone can not feel so down anymore? I recently thought I had met the woman for me, but while I was staying at hers in order to get to know her she fell in love with another man and I had no where else to go so was forced to endure everything she did, how it made me feel while I was there. Now that I am back at home I am feeling very broken. I am wanting to feel better but I just don't understand how someone can put others through mental torture and she is the one who has found happiness in him and I'm the one feeling shattered. I try going for walks but my mind tells me what good is a walk going to do, when my thoughts are still going to be dealing with all this hurt and loneliness but just not at home. I just don't understand how it's fair she can put me through so many emotions, so many tears in a short space of time and she has someone now and I have no one to tell me I'll get through this...or tell me they love me. And now that she has him, I'm getting nothing but being ignored. No genuine concern for my wellbeing. Whereas I would never be able to inflict this type of pain on anyone
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28-11-2016
09:36 PM
Hi TMC. I had a similar experience with someone I assumed had feelings for me. I didn't connect via fb, but I thought my feelings were returned. She lied to you and led you on. These things do hurt and you will need time to accept that you meant nothing. Of course it's hard to believe that nothing came of something you invested time into. I hate saying this, but she did not really care at all, you were used and that makes it harder. You will get past this and you will eventually meet the right one. You have much to offer the girl you will eventually meet and she will love you as you love her.
Lynda
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