I was very close with a girl having a long distance relationship. 3 Months into the relationship she changed one day and wasn't enthusiastic to talk to me, and started to lie about stuff. She then said we can't be together anymore and doesn't want to be attached to someone she can't have. The next day she got back to being close with me. A few days later I woke up to find she had removed me off her socials. I messaged her and she said she is trying to hide from me and said she has depression and has been in pain for 6 months. She told me that she will be going to hospital for a month and that I won't be able to contact her. She however stayed in contact with me while she was in hospital. She said she would be allowed to go out once a week. So she went out of the Saturday however she was going to school, home and back to the hospital - She seemed to be going out lot while in hospital. A couple days after being in hospital she got out but she didn't even tell me. I asked her why she isn't going to the hospital tonight and she said she's out. She added me back on the socials after being out however she was not the same as she didn't want to Snapchat me even though she still used it. We used to snap eachother every day and night. I thought this was strange.
There were moments were she wouldn’t seem enthusiastic to talk to me and we would sometimes have arguments, I would try keep it calm but she got to upset with me. She ended up blocking me a few times. We ended up agreeing to just be friends and a few days of not talking as much and her not showing much enthusiasm to talk to me, she wanted to be close with me again. She did this another one or two times.
Recently out of nowhere she said she is with a guy. Then one day she said she was at the guy’s house however she was clearly at her house (she was snapping me and I could see) She lied about being at his house. She lied about this guy as a whole. She keeps telling me about this guy she spends time with however he doesn’t exist. I am not sure why she would be making all these lies up. I feel like I am talking to a completely different person. I have tried to keep it cool and calm. I just don’t know why she has been so different towards me. I remind her that I am always there for her and she means a lot to me and that I care about her. When she was in hospital she said “I need you to be here for me”, “I’m in so much pain”, I was there for her and she knows I was there, why is she being like this to me?
