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Hi everyone,
I joined the online forum a few days ago and posted in the anxiety section. I'm just trying a new medicine these last 4 days and finding my anxiety is less but now I'm feeling very depressed and down. Maybe because of the weather, or cause my mate (who is always up for a good yarn) had an off day, or cause I'm not really comfortable with my GP, not sure the reason why I'm so down. Normally i suffer from anxiety mostly with a bit of depression, now its quite a lot of depression. I did meet my support worker today and we had a good chat for an hour and a half but the rest of the day I just felt really down. My family does all the unhelpful things like avoiding me when i need to feel people around me and say things like "keep busy" which doesnt help.
I guess other people have or are going through something similar and I know it can take several weeks for a medication to work also but would be interesting to hear if others are going through this and what strategies they use (I have some already, the weather really fouled up everything today but that's another story).
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dear Rochan, good on you for posting your comment.
My own belief is that when you have anxiety then you have depression, I know that either of these have their own section on the website, but this whole point of Beyond Blue is to tackle problems that people have, so all the sections are under the same umbrella, I maybe wrong and accept that.
You need a doctor who you can relate to, someone who likes a joke, when you feel well, someone who is interested in your condition and definitely will go overboard to help you, but this isn't happening, however the medication could be the right choice, but you need more than this.
Click onto 'Get Support' at the top of this page and search for a doctor who maybe able to help you, as these doctors work specifically with BB and handle people with any type of depression.
The other option is to ring BB also at the top and speak with them.
Certainly the weather can have a definite reaction in how we feel, one day it's hot then next day we need the heater on, plus your friend who he and you like to have yarn, and when he is having an off day, then this will pull you back in how you feel.
I have a psychologist for 20 years, probably more than some marriages, but every time I was with her (not sexually) I felt good, but as soon as I left my world would collapse again, and would always say 'I'll put on my fake face now'.
Has your anxiety been a long term illness, and I am only saying this because they just say to you 'to keep busy'.
Actually being busy would be good, but how can someone who is depressed keep busy, because you just can't even be interested let alone motivated, there's no desire what so ever.
For me I would throw the ball to my little puppie, not the one in this photo but another one I had for 18 years, but this didn't last all that long, and sometimes I would do a bit of painting, but every one is different.
I wish that I could have the energy to go to my shed and ponder away, but I wasn't interested, because that was something I had always loved to do. Geoff.
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Hey Rochan, Welcome.
Medication can be a tough thing to get balanced sometimes. One of the medications I'm on for anxiety can make my depression worse, so it's a bit of a balancing act for my Dr and I to get right.
As Geoff mentioned, please consider searching for a Dr who you are comfortable with, it's pretty important and a bit like shopping for the perfect pair of jeans that fit nicely. It can take a bit of time and you might try a few pairs on before one pair feels right. Then you've got a new favourite pair. It took me a long time to find a psychiatrist who I felt a connection with and I felt was interested in me and not just counting down till the next patient ot going through the same old motions.
If you're feeling up to it, have a look in the "Get support" section below and "Find a professional".
In the meantime, keep holding on. The black fog will lift and you'll be feeling better soon.
Let us know how you're going in a few days.
Paul
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